What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Creative
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Birthday Sex With Multiple Partners
How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? One girl was my ex (we had an 18 month affair): 31, Brazilian, curvy, brunette, open-minded, bisexual.
The other girl is friend-with-benefits who I’d been seeing for around a year. She is black, 29, a big beautiful woman, who is adventurous and straight.
Plus a couple we met via Fab: both black, late 20s, bisexual.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We started playing at my ex’s place and ended up at a hotel. It was all pretty spontaneous.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was my birthday, and my ex invited me over to hang out since my family was out of town. She was seeing someone else at the time, but they didn’t live together. My plan was to hang out, innocently, for a couple of hours then go see my friends-with-benefits.
Everything was innocent enough until I was about to leave. My ex asked if I was annoyed that we weren’t going to hook up, and I said, “No, of course, not.” I genuinely wasn’t looking to. But I think she was mildly annoyed that I seemed disinterested, whereas it was more than I didn’t want to be pushy or disrespectful to her current relationship.
Anyways, as I was about to leave, she asked for a foot rub. In retrospect, that was never going to lead to anything but intimacy. A foot massage leads to a legs message, which leads to me eating her nicely shaved pussy. After I made her cum she pushed me back on her couch, and eased herself onto my cock. We fucked until she came again, but I didn’t want to cum, as I was about to leave to meet my friend-with-benefits. My ex considered coming too. She was interested in my new girl, and was now horny. But, she had an early morning meeting and it was already after midnight, so that was that. It was tough not cumming, but I figured I’d be inside my friend-with-benefits within an hour or so, so I could wait!
So then I went to meet my friend-with-benefits at the hotel. We played and fucked and I ate her lots until she squirted repeatedly. Eating pussy is my favorite thing in the world, but I was feeling greedy and wanted more. We’d had a lot of MFMs before but as it was my birthday I wanted something different. We checked Fab and found a couple close by who wanted to party and play. I knew they were bi, which my FWB was a bit bemused by, given that we’re both straight, but truthfully I was hoping to play with a cock too, and hoped she could be tempted into a little girl on girl action. Which is what happened…
The other couple arrived at the hotel and we all got comfortable, aided by a few lines of coke. Then we all got naked. Me and my FWB both ate out the girl to start. My friend wasn’t super into it, but she was trying to please: the other girl gave her a 6 out of 10… not bad for a beginner! Then the two girls sucked the guy’s cock, which was maybe 7 inches, and thicker than my average six inch cock. Then he and I began stroking one another. Truthfully, this kinda killed the mood, because my girl REALLY wasn’t into that visual, and she kinda freaked out a bit, and went to the bathroom.
While she was in there, the guy and I sucked one another briefly, and turn turned out attention to his friend. It was hot sharing her – she had a particularly nice ass and a tight little body – but I did feel a bit bad that my own FWB was excluded. When she came out of the bathroom she started to put on her clothes and that was kinda the signal for the rest of us to call it a night. The coke ensured that neither me nor the guy were gonna cum anyway!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My FWB and I talked about it a lot. She wasn’t into her first bi experience, though she admitted she was excited at the thought of possibly playing with my Brazilian ex when it seemed she might join us. I wish that had happened, tbh.
I stayed in contact with both the guy and girl. This past summer I ended up having both a MFM and a FFM with her…but those are stories are another day.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told the story to one friend, and subsequent play partners. They thought it was hot.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Fucking three girls in one night.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? My FWB’s discomfort.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Always an interesting read!
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