by Casual in Kent

Gender: Female
Age: 20
Race/ethnicity: Native American
Current location: Kent, Ohio
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Maid
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Nondenominational Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Birthday Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? Four days ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him at a party about a month ago, and we’ve talked a bit since then but I don’t know him well at all. He’s got brown hair and hazel eyes, a little on the chubby side, but not obese or squishy. We’ve only hooked up once, but that may change. I wasn’t especially interested in dating him before the hookup`

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was texting him, and asking him what plans he had to celebrate his birthday (he had none) so I offered to hang out for a while. We went back to his room and talked for a while; he kept finding excuses to touch me, and I started laughing. When he asked what I was thinking, I put my hands in his hair and kissed him, and then said that if he was going to make a move, he should just do it. To be perfectly honest, I went there with every intention of getting laid, and most of my actions were made with that goal in mind.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It started out with just making out, and then he started to finger me, and then he went down on me, it felt really good, especially since I hadn’t had sex in a long time. He finally put it in me, and we tried out several positions before we settled on missionary. He wasn’t an exceptional lover, but he was enthusiastic. When we talked, it was when he was putting the condom on, and I laughed because it was green and looked funny. He shut me up by ramming his penis inside me.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I have a sensitive body, so from the time we started foreplay, to the time he finished, I’d had seven orgasms.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used a condom, but we didn’t take any other precautions, nor did we talk about it beforehand.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was in the mood for some action, and he was willing and available.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, we talked for a few minutes, I got dressed and then told him I had to go. I am satisfied with what happened, and maybe we’ll do it again. I don’t have any expectations, except that he won’t try to make it something that it isn’t. I see him as an interesting individual who has the potential to become a decent friend.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told four of my friends, and all of them were a little shocked (mostly because I’ve got a massive crush on a different person), but supportive.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? As far as I’m concerned, it was consensual for the both of us, because I gave him the option of saying no.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing for me, was the multiple orgasms; I also enjoyed the validation that I AM desirable, even after gaining weight. The worst is the idea that he might get the wrong idea about our relationship. After the hookup, I’ve certainly become more confident, and I’ve got less of a stigma against casual sex, because it really doesn’t hurt anybody if you are safe.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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