Location: Boston MA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Movie theatre manager
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation?: Gay/Lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Top gay man
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks
How would you best classify this hookup? Grindr hookup
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This guy was about 5’9, pretty skinny but had some muscle. He was wearing jeans cutoff at the knees and a fitted t-shirt. I had talked to this guy a few times on Grindr when he was in my area. We were both just really looking for fun and had planned to meet up earlier but he flaked out a few times. I figured he was just going to keep bailing so I didn’t expect him to show up.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at work at the movie theatre for the evening. The shift was long and I usually do not get off until at least 1:30-2am. I told him he could come watch a movie for free and wait for me to get off work so we could meet at my house to hook up. He said he would come see the last show which was a little after 11pm and wait for me to get off after it ended. He didn’t end up showing until around 12 after the theatre had closed. I was wearing a button up shirt and tie, dress pants and had a suit jacket on. I walked him to his auditorium and we made small talk. When we entered I grabbed his arm and kissed him. I pulled him out of the auditorium and into a closet and we made out. I still had employees that were closing up so I broke off the kiss and told him this had to wait. He went back to watch the movie and I continued work. His movie ended and I still had about an hour before I would be off. The entire theatre was empty now except for some employees. He said he really did not want to wait around and suggested we hook up tomorrow instead. I told him he had me turned on and that we should just get off quickly. That is when we went into another closet.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started making out. We were locked inside a closet together. I pulled the bottom of my shirt out of my pants and bunched it up over my pecs. I have a really hairy chest for my age but I find that most guys get really turned on by it. I grabbed his hand and had him rub my erection through my dress pants. I was shoving my tongue into his mouth and he was mainly kissing me back but I noticed that his tongue never really left his mouth. I broke off the kiss and pulled his shirt off. I was fully hard by now and my dick was being rubbed and groped by his hands. I have a very thick penis which is about 7.5″ long. I broke the kiss and pushed him to his knees. He then pulled out my dick and start to suck it. He pulled his dick out and started jerking off while he sucked on mine. I like to get a little rough so I took control and starting thrusting in his mouth.
He looked up at my chest and than we made eye contact. After a few minutes of that I pulled him back up and we started kissing again. I broke the kiss and told him to shove his tongue in my mouth. He did, and I grabbed our dicks together and started jerking them off together while we each shoved our tongue in the other’s mouth. We were both very turned on by now. I pushed his back into the corner of the room and kept kissing. He stopped sticking his tongue in my mouth so I told him to ‘stick your fucking tongue in my mouth’. I said it forcefully which really turned him on so he shoved his tongue back into my mouth. I started sucking on his tongue, all the while our dicks were pressed together and I was jerking them off. Mine was at least twice the thickness of his and a few inches longer. This turned both of us on. I told him I was getting close so he got back to his knees and took my dick in his mouth. I started to pump his mouth until i shot into his mouth. He came shortly after I did. He then spit out my load onto the carpet and said he does not swallow. We had a quick laugh and got dressed after which he left and I finished work. He said it was the hottest ‘public’ sex act he has had which I will agree to.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We both asked each other if we had any diseases. We both said we did not.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Have not had sex in a few weeks and was really just looking to get off. Not sure of his reasoning.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt good, a little nervous that someone at work will find out. We spoke about potentially meeting up for anal sex but that has not happened yet. He lives farther away and is only occasionally in the area. Overall it was a good experience. We were both pretty friendly and laid back and it seemed like we both understood what the other was looking for.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a coworker I got a blowjob last week and he laughed. He is a straight guy I have a crush on and he knows I am gay.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, unless I get fired for it.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was there are no strings attached. After we had finished we split and that was that. I would not be interested in a relationship with him so I was glad to just have a good time and then leave it at that. He seemed like a cool kid to maybe hang out with sometime.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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