What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 33
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Miranda is a taller, good looking brunette. She has brown eyes, wears glasses, and has a set of nice tits. She is married to one of my best friends. When we all drink together we would flirt a lot, but it never went beyond that.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went to my buddy’s place for a party he was throwing. There was about 12 of us in the house at the time. We drank a lot and played a lot of games. Everyone was coupled up beside me and one other guy. It got pretty sexual around the house with girls taking off their shirts as usual. Miranda flashed everyone and her husband Tom didn’t approve. He was and still is, very protective. When the night ended, a few of the couples took rooms. The rest of us took the floor or the large sectional. My buddy Tom was in the middle with Miranda and I was at the end of the sectional. Tom was dead to the world and had passed out. Miranda had her body facing towards Tom when the lights went off. A few moments later she had moved on the couch and was facing towards me. She had her back against the couch and I was on the outside. She said: “hey you still up?” I responded to her. She asked if I was as horny as she was. I said yeah and asked why. She said good. She reached up and started to rub my cock through my pants. I told her we couldn’t do this. I said one, Tom is my best friend, and two, everyone else is around us. She just told me to be quiet. I felt the zipper go down on my pants. I really didn’t want to hurt Tom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was going to object again as she took my cock in her mouth. At that point, I didn’t care who she was married to. She didn’t move her head at all and just circled her tongue around my head. I got super hard as it felt amazing. I reached down and put my hand in her hair. I pushed her head towards me. She loosened her grip with her lips on my cock and took me into her throat. She gagged a bit, which was loud. She pulled back and pushed at my hand. She slowly moved her head as not to make any motion on the couch. She then slid her way up so she was laying right in front of me. I told her I thought we were going to get caught. She easily slid down her pants and panties. She then whispered for me to put it in. At this point, I figured why not. I spit on my hand and lubed up my dick. She reached back and helped me get to her hole and I pushed in. She was super wet and pretty damn tight. We just laid there for a few seconds before we started to make small movements. She met my thrusts by pushing back on my cock. It felt great sinking in deep behind her. She leaned her head back and I kissed her neck. We did these small movements for several minutes. She whispered she was going to cum. I held her tight as she shook and she was breathing quite loud. She pushed her face into the couch and let out a few muffled moans. Once she was done, she laid there breathing heavy still. I leaned back a bit and picked up my pace. I was getting close and started to slam into her not so quietly. She hit my arm, but it didn’t stop me. I grabbed her side and plunged in deep as I blew my load. Once I was finished I pulled out and she went to the bathroom. I zipped up and laid back down. She came back down and laid on the couch again. When we woke up in the morning Tom was all pissed because she was laying close to me. They ended up in a fight over it and went outside.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?
I felt and still feel super guilty. No future expectations of hooking up. They are still together and expecting a baby soon.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I did eventually tell my buddy Chad that was at the party with us. He couldn’t believe it. He said he wouldn’t say anything and neither should I.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Very much
Why do you regret this hookup? My best friends wife.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was good sex, but shouldn’t have happened
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it happened.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
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