Age: 57 now, 21 at the time
Current location: California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Very happily married
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? High libido
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20-25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
BJ In My Red Cougar
How long ago did this hookup happen? 36 years
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Laura was about 20 years old, with short brown hair and VERY large breasts. I had a casual acquaintance with her from our church youth-group. All of the other guys were enamored with her breasts and cleavage. She had a reputation for being ‘loose,’ though I never saw any evidence of it. She was always pleasant, but I never got the impression she was flirting with me or interested in any way.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a youth group event at church and she asked me to give her a ride home in my red Cougar. (hence the story title) She was living with her boyfriend, not too far away from me, so I was happy to oblige.
There was no planning involved, at least not on my part. She instigated it. It wouldn’t have crossed my mind to do so, as she had never shown any interest in me and was in a serious relationship.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On the ride home she got chatty and asked if I would mind finding a place to pull over so we could continue the conversation for a while before arriving in front of her house. It was after dark and there was a dimly lit parking lot next to a city park. As we talked, she put her hand on my leg and, next thing I knew, we were making out and I was fondling her breasts. I asked about her boyfriend and she indicated she was perfectly happy with him and didn’t want to start a relationship with me, she just thought I was cute and wanted to ‘try me out.’
Without much more conversation, she put her head in my lap and undid my fly. She then went to town kissing and sucking on my cock, doing her best to make me cum. While she was working me over, I got her pants undone and rubbed her pussy and fingered her. She worked me over for about 15 minutes and stopped when she realized she wasn’t going to get me to cum.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No, neither of us had an orgasm.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? No precautions, no discussion.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? She said she was perfectly happy with her boyfriend, she just wanted to play. No strings attached. Why would I say no to that?
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup I drove her home, we kissed goodbye and she went into the house. I felt high about having been ‘wanted’ and hoped for a repeat, preferably with vaginal sex. Sadly, I never saw her again after that.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. I was not the kiss-and-tell type.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all. It was great!
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was feeling desired and getting a very enthusiastic blow job and getting to play with those magnificent breasts of hers.
The worst was not being able to cum (that’s always been an issue for me except for vaginal sex) and not being able to hook up with her again to ‘go all the way.’
I remember thinking how fun it was to just hook up like that for the physical fun with no expectations of dating or romance.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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