What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

BK Foursome Diving

How long ago did this hookup happen? A month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ll describe the Women first. They are my two best friends from high school. My first best friend, let’s call her MAQ, is a 32-year-old Ph.D. student. She is a part-time researcher and teacher. She is very petite, a little less than 5 feet in height, and brown skinned. She has had a lot of sexual encounters – at her college or at the bar with both men and women. MAQ has recently been engaged to be married next year. I will be her “maid-of-honor”. My second best friend we will call KEN. She is also 32, a marketing professional. She was the first of us to have sexual experiences since she had her first boyfriend at 15. Unlike MAQ, she only had 2 partners – one, her longtime boyfriend whom she eventually broke up with, and her now husband. I must say I learned the “basics” from her when she taught me how to masturbate early in college in my room. We are a very close group that shares all of our secrets and openly talk about our sexual experiences, preferences, and fantasies. For the purpose of this article, I will refer to myself as KIM.

Then there is the guy, who we will refer to as DIVER. DIVER is in his mid-50’s, married, with 3 adult children, some of whom are about our ages. He was one of the most beautiful human beings I had ever met. He has black, shiny hair, tantalizing eyes, and pinkish, thin but pouty lips. He had very broad shoulders, which he got from his intense training in sports. He was my former boss – and his wit and intelligence made him 100X hotter! A while back, I had a steamy affair with DIVER, which lasted about 2 years. We started while we were working together and continued even after we both left the organization where we met. Then about a year and a half ago, we agreed to break-up but remained good friends. DIVER is an experienced scuba diver and had once brought me and my group of other friends to a scuba orientation class. Since then, our face-to-face meetings and interaction became less. We kept in touch through social media and text messages – but even that became more and more infrequent. By the time I had my reunion with my best friends, I had not been in touch with DIVER for over 3 to 6 months. I only told MAQ about my past relationship with DIVER.

MAQ is getting married to her college-sweetheart, while KEN, on the other hand, who has been married for 2 years, is migrating to another country. So, MAQ decided to visit KEN and me, and have a reunion of sorts. There is a lot of excitement and mixed emotions swirling within each of us with the personal news. We knew then, that because of these developments, our opportunities to get-together will be much less often. That thought saddened us and made this reunion even more special.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The reunion started very innocently. During lunch, we agreed to celebrate a combined event: MAQ’s Bachelorette Party and KEN’s going away send-off. MAQ suggested going Scuba Diving? All of us agreed to a 3-day trip to go diving, but for me, this meant I had to ask DIVER’s help. I dreaded the thought, but my wild ladies coerced me into agreeing! To kick it off, we went shopping for skimpy bikini’s to wear!

So, I did call DIVER to request for the favor of setting up the Discovery Dive. Our phone conversations were friendly and otherwise casual, but I could not help but notice a “careful and deliberate” casual arms-length in his tone. We agreed that I would drive and pick him up and drop him off at his home after. And on the agreed day, I picked DIVER up at exactly 5:30 am, to arrive at the resort before 9 am. We drove to MAQ’s hotel – where KEN and MAQ were waiting. We were all in beach/summer attire. KEN and MAQ kept commenting on how hot DIVER is.

We finally arrived at the resort just by 9 am. We were then ushered to our beautiful suite. DIVER was assigned the Single Studio, while the girls and I put our things in the Family Room. Afterward, we did our dive training and went for the dive session. It was an incredible experience. That night, we all had dinner and drank beer. Afterward, DIVER went back to the room saying he was tired. At this point, the girls and I were pretty tipsy. We started talking naughtily about DIVER. We decided to continue the party with some vodka back in the room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Back in the suite, Diver was asleep in his room with the connecting door left ajar. We could see him sleeping in just loose board shorts. We could see his cock sticking out of his pants. I told the girls to go away and closed the door. The three of us got naked and showered together, just as we used to do. I could tell they were starting to get aroused.

We sat on the edge of the bed in only our towels. We then went to exchange gifts. KIM had gotten both of us electric dildos! MAQ started to massage my pussy with her dildo. I stopped her so we could finish giving gifts (which were also sex toys). Then, we opened MAQ’s vodka bottle and poured it into three shot glasses. We took about five shots each! Suddenly, we all began to kiss passionately. MAQ continued rubbing my pussy with her hand, as KEN started to kiss my nipples. At this point I could not contain the horniness anymore and started to moan – I pulled KEN up and kissed her torridly, our tongues intertwining. MAQ laid her back on the bed while KEN and I knelt. She spread both our legs and then fingered us simultaneously. KEN extended her hand and reached for MAQ’s pussy, returning the favor and touched MAQ’s pussy while MAQ played with KEN’s. MAQ moved a little closer to me, this time not just touching me, but actually circling her tongue around my pussy! I then noticed that DIVER had been watching the three of us through the slightly open door. I had no idea how long he had been watching! He looked at me and smiled. I opened the door wide and said, “Why don’t’ you join us?”

I reached for his hand and walked him towards the bed. He was hesitant but willing. Before I could even do anything with DIVER, MAQ was already behind DIVER, putting a blindfold on his eyes. I removed his boxers exposing his large manhood. I started touching his balls and KEN started caressing his penis very slowly while she kissed me on the lips. I held KEN’s head as she swallowed DIVER with her tongue swirling around the throbbing head of his penis. I licked divers thigh, knees, and then reached for KEN’s pussy and licked her slowly and sensually. I continued to lick her as I reach for a dildo and inserted it slowly inside KEN’s very wet pussy.

MAQ was still kissing DIVER all over, and KEN was still playing with his penis. He began to cum and KEN swallowed all of it. I felt so jealous but more aroused seeing DIVER bite his lips again and hear him moan like we were the only people in the resort! After DIVER rested for a bit, he began to fuck MAQ, lying on her back with her pussy in the air. We could tell, she had a few orgasms in the process!

I lay spread-eagle on the bed as DIVER started kissing me all over. KEN and MAQ watched while caressing and kissing each other. DIVER beaconed the girls to join. MAQ and KEN moved closer both sucked and licked each of my nipples DIVER, MAQ and KEN – started to kiss me all over – licking, sucking, slurping. Then one of the girls sat on my face while someone licked my pussy. I felt a penis moving up and down my breasts. I was dripping wet!

Then it happened. I felt DIVER slowly enter his penis into my very wet pussy. It was big, hard, and really nice! Oh, I had missed his penis so much! And as he was slowly penetrating me, I felt MAQ’s pussy sit on my face. She was dripping wet. I went to town on MAQ’s pussy – putting my tongue inside her wet vagina and hearing her moan. As I was eating MAQ’s dripping pussy, I could feel DIVER’s rock-hard cock push deeper inside of me! DIVER was kissing KEN’s pussy, while KEN held his head between her legs. I could hear MAQ scream as she had an orgasm. KEN began to scream too as DIVER licked up her pussy. DIVER pumped and pumped inside me, and I could see his veins come out from his neck. I screamed so loud as I orgasmed. Soon after, DIVER pulled me close, fucking me hard, and came inside my tight pussy. After, the four of us fell asleep in one pile of sweating bodies.

After about an hour, I woke up on the bed alone, naked and spread eagle. The lights had been turned off. The other three were nowhere to be found. I heard sounds coming from DIVER’s adjoining room. Peering through the door, I saw the three of them going at it. What I saw was awesome and turned me on even more! DIVER was on his back, KEN was riding his face and MAQ was fucking DIVER! The moans, the slurping and licking sounds and the synchronized creaking of the bed were just too much. I joined in with them and DIVER fucked me again. More fucking, sucking, moaning, and touching happened until we noticed the sun rising. We woke up a little past 2 pm. We took a bath together, gave each other slow erotic oral sex while taking a bath. We packed and left the resort before 5 pm.

Everyone was quiet during the trip back. DIVER drove back. We drove straight to his home. He got off, said goodbye. The three of us drove back to MAQ’s hotel where we had dinner and slept in.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We drove back home and acted normal. Still best buddies with one hell of an experience!!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was such a wonderful experience — something I will never ever forget

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think I learned a lot more about myself

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? So liberating and fun

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It makes u feel good about yourself.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a good way to express sexual experiences without being judged.

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