What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Religious affiliation: Christian
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very horny, open minded
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? combined probably about 15-20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? I posted “Easily seduced by the redhead”, so this is the second.
Blind First Date Turns Risque
How long ago did this hookup happen? Just over 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This is the second story I’ve written which happened in between serious relationships. On this occasion I had recently split up with one of my exes and a friend’s mum had actually organized a blind date for us, as she thought we would make a good couple. With nothing to lose, and just free of a difficult relationship I agreed to go on the date. My mindset was that I would just see what happened. The girl was 21, short and petite with blond hair, and a pretty face.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a few texts to arrange the blind date, we met at a car park where she was dropped off by her Dad, who would be picking her up later on as she lived quite far away. She was wearing a tight pink dress, and as she stepped out I couldn’t believe my luck as I could see she had a great body, nice legs and was very pretty. It was clear she was nervous and so was I a bit, but as we went into a pub I made the conversation and bought in the drinks. After a few drinks and finding a few things in common we started French kissing lustfully much to the enjoyment of a few people watching at other tables. As we left the pub she said something strange “well at least we both know each other now”. I thought that sounded like an open invitation to have some first date fun, but maybe I was misreading things and wanted her to like me so I held back any dirty suggestions in my head and suggested a club. She agreed, although on the way there we kissed against shop windows a few times, but I managed to restrain myself.
In the club we danced, she sat on my lap and kissed me, and then I suggested leaving the club for some food. So we decided to go for some fish and chips.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were sitting in the café next to each other, with just the chef, and a couple of other people talking to him. We were down the end of the café by ourselves. There was a mirror in front of us and as we ate she looked at me cheekily, and before I knew it she took my hand, slided it between her legs and guided my fingers along the cotton of her red and black panties, rubbing her little blonde pussy through the material. My cock hardened instantly and with the permission a dirty smile she gave me I slid my fingers underneath and started playing with her clit. All the time we pretended that we were just innocently eating chips, but as I fingered her harder the chef noticed we were up to something and we swiftly realised this and left.
By now all I wanted to do was find somewhere to fuck her, but where? We were in the town centre with no place to find shelter. We walked back into the car park we had met at the beginning and walked around the corner, still in the open car park but away from the shops. I gently pushed her against the wall and lifting her dress up and slipped my hand down her panties and started to frantically play with her already soaking wet pussy. All the time we did this we knew anyone could have seen and actually we heard drunk voices but they soon went away. By now she complained out loud that she had decided to wear tights, obviously as she wanted me to take her there and then against the wall. Problem was I couldn’t exactly rip them open with her dad coming to pick her up, and also I was a little conscious of where we were. I couldn’t think of anywhere to go and time was running out as it would not be long until her Dad was due to arrive back at the same car park to pick her up! I didn’t really want him to turn up while his daughter was taking my cock up against a wall! Meanwhile, she reached down into my jeans and beneath my boxers and took hold of my cock. She whispered “I like what I feel”, which I loved. I told her that I’d love to have my cock in her mouth. She looked at me in thought for a second and then dropped to her knees, and pulled out my erect cock. She looked left and then looked to the right and then began to eagerly suck on it. It was a really nice blowjob but in the few minutes she did it, I didn’t cum. We had to stop because her Dad was soon to arrive and I’m so glad we did because literally about 3 or 4 minutes after she pulled up her dress and I put my cock away, and we stopped kissing, her Dad arrived and she said goodbye quickly and innocently left as if nothing had been happening a few minutes before.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great the next day, as I had had such an exciting experience. I regret that I had not found somewhere private to have sex with her, or that I did not cum, however it was still very enjoyable and she was very pretty. We arranged another date during the day, and I took her out for lunch before going home to my house, where we ended up having sex in my bedroom (that’s another story). We had a third date where we tried to just get to know each other without sex involved, but realised that we didn’t have much in common and agreed to leave it at that. If I had not been worried about leading her on I would have liked to have more sex with her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my friends who liked the story.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A sexy blonde coming onto me by getting me to finger her and then giving me a blow job in a kinky risqué place.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That Ii didn’t get the chance to pull down those tights and have sex with her.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was very enjoyable and If I was single I would do it again, although maybe in a less open environment.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think its really good, being the second time I have written a story I enjoyed being able to share my stories, and knowing they’ve been read is quite exciting. It’s nice to find a safe website aswell where you can share. It would be good to be able to include stories from within monogamous relationships too though as that can be very good too, and can show that risqué sex does not just happen outside of relationships. Lastly, I enjoy reading other stories as they often turn me on, leading to some self-indulgence!
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