What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Office Worker
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bi curious….. maybe
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50 +
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Blindfolded Sex With a Stranger

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Too soon to say

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall and very well educated. Quite posh. Never seen him before other than from a photo online. Anxious that the man in the pic was the guy who would turn up.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In a local hotel. Planned to the tee. I instigated it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was arranged that I would go to the hotel first, wear a floaty skirt with no knickers, heels and a see-through blouse with no bra underneath. I was ordered to leave a blindfold at the side of me whilst I lay on the bed with my butt in the air and “cunt exposed”. I had brought a bottle of champagne to loosen my nerves as I had only had one partner in 22 years!! He messaged me saying he was only 5 minutes away so I quickly took a large glug of my drink and re-applied my bright red lippy. I positioned myself on the bed as planned and when I heard the door open, I sank my head into the bed and raised my butt higher. Without any visual contact, he took the blindfold from beside me and covered my eyes. He fingered me first and expressed delight at how wet I was, then without warning, he stuck his hard cock inside me asking me if this is what I’d been waiting for. I moaned with delight and found myself screaming at him to go deeper, harder and faster. To this, he pulled me up and led me against a wall where he fucked me standing up! Within seconds I had cum all over him and my orgasm wet the both of us through. He called me a dirty slut and started to fuck me harder. I held my arms in the air and pushed against the arch in the ceiling so I could thrust down on his cock even more. He started slapping my tits as we both moaned. I dropped to my knees and took his cock into my mouth. He turned around and led me back to the bed where I slipped his cock deep inside me whilst riding him. He was asking me if he owned me now to which I told him to shut the fuck up. We both fucked hard against each other till he came full force. By this point, we were both panting and sweating. He took off my blindfold and held his arm out for me to snuggle up on the side of him. We briefly spoke about our lives before we started again to repeat what had just happened. After a couple of hours, I told him I needed to go and we said we would message each other in the week. We have been in touch on a daily basis and hatching s plan to make round 2 even more exciting!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? At the moment I am still reliving what happened over and over in my head. I feel like I am constantly aroused and cannot wait to fuck him again. I have no hopes for the future with this guy as my husband gives me a very comfortable life and I wouldn’t leave him. I am however addicted to the risk this involves and cannot anticipate my life ever being the same again!!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Morning after pill

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend who was very shocked and cannot imagine doing something like this herself! I needed to express the experience.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Not knowing what I was capable of sexually after such a long time with the same man. I was able to physically act out my every desire confidently.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to stay longer and not knowing what’s next.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Open minded

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