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Top CSP stories 12/14-12/31/15

Happy New Year! Close out your vacation with a few of our favorite stories from December. There's something for everyone: a hetero hookup, a first-time gay experience, and a first-time threesome! If you had any holiday hookups, be sure to share them here. Some hookups...

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Featured CSP Regular: Jacrou

Welcome to a new Casual Sex Project feature: interviews with our users. You may have noticed the name Jacrou as you peruse the stories on CSP because she has shared an astounding 35 of her own experiences! What’s more, they cover a wide variety of different...

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5 Steps to Surviving an Office Holiday Party Hookup

Holiday season means Holiday Party season! And for a lot of us, it means OFFICE Holiday Parties, where co-workers take advantage of the open bar and/or make questionable decisions. You’re probably thinking, that’s just a rumor, right? That the IT guy hooked up with...

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Top CSP Stories – 12/7

This week, our two favorite stories reminded us that you can still meet a hookup partner the old-fashioned way... in person! That's right, not all hookups come from Tinder/Grindr/online dating. Read on to learn how these two writers met their casual sex partners and...

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Win a Jimmyjane Afterglow Massage Candle!

We're giving away a sensual massage candle, courtesy of Pleasure Chest. Enter using the widget below. Dr. Zhana will announce the winner on Periscope on Friday evening. Read on to learn more about the Jimmyjane Afterglow Massage candle sponsored by our favorite sex...

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Top CSP Stories – 11/30

This week, we have two stories that demonstrate how much good communication is essential to a good hookup.  What were your favorite stories from the week? First, communication wins in the story Who Knew Ice Could Be So Hot. It turns out that when you ask for exactly...

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Non-monogamy Workshop in NYC Dec 3!

Non-monogamy is one of those terms that's most easily understood by what it's NOT, rather than by what it IS. As the map above shows, non-monogamy can mean a LOT of different things! How do you know what type of non-monogamy is right for you? Get some clarity...

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Top CSP Stories – 11/23

This week, our favorite stories came from men who describe their encounters with straightforward women. When women aren't afraid to ask for what they want, men remember! Read on to hear from two guys about their casual sex encounters. It started as a joke...and now...

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Cyber Monday DEAL from Lelo!

Looking for sweet #CyberMonday deals? Look no further. Our sponsor Lelo has beautiful, high quality adult toys and you can get 25% off and FREE international shipping with code DRZHANABF! (If you missed the Black Friday deal, you're in luck―the sale is going on until...

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Top CSP Stories of the Week Nov 16

Some things are just irresistible. Our two favorite stories this week explore ways people have succumbed to temptation...with satisfying results. What part of the body could be called a "helicopter"? If you're stumped, this excerpt should give you a little hint:  I...

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Does Wanting Casual Sex Really Mean Not Wanting Love?

Originally published by Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D. on January 28, 2005 on Psychology Today. Consider these two (real) people: One is my friend "Sam," 45. He’s a good-looking, charming man who’s had sex with over 800 women in his lifetime (or so he claims). Most of his...

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CSP Top Pick Stories From Week of Oct 26, 2015

Halloween weekend should always lead to fun. If you have a sexy story from this weekend, or any other Halloween, share it here! Now, on to this week's favorite casual sex stories! Here’s a taste of each...click the links for the juicy details. An “experience junkie”...

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Is Casual Sex on the Rise in America?

Originally published by Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D. on April 25, 2014 on Psychology Today.   These days, hooking up seems to be everywhere. Prime-time television is replete with tales of uncommitted sex, mainstream Hollywood produces movies such as Friends with...

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CSP Top Pick Stories From This Week

Missed some stories this week? Here are two of our favorites. What Happens in Moscow? An American college student has an exciting encounter with a native Russian man who fulfills her years-long fantasy. When finally faced with a real dick, I was initially very...

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Hookups Love Massages

Ever wonder how to turn a casual date into something more sexual without being too explicit? Enjoy some physical contact without going too far? Test the waters so you can decide on whether you want to swim in them? Relax and get "in the mood" before sexual play? Thank...

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Follow The Casual Sex Project on Twitter & Facebook!

Follow The Casual Sex Project on Twitter and Facebook! We share links to casual sex stories as they're posted so you won't miss any updates. We're also sharing articles about casual sex  and information on upcoming lectures and events. Tweet at us @CasualSexProj or...

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What Type of Casual Sex Are People Really Having?

Originally published by Zhana Vrangalova, Ph.D. on Psychology Today When people talk about sex outside of a relationship, a one-night stand with someone you just met is typically the first thing that comes to mind. It is the most iconic notion of casual sex, and...

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TEDx: Is Casual Sex Bad For You?

HOT OFF THE PRESS! You can now watch my talk on TEDx College of William & Mary Is Casual Sex Bad For You? Our understanding of American sexuality has come along way through social science research. However, 90% of our knowledge on casual sex from research is...

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