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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Sunderland
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Call centre
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 9
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Blowjob From Work Colleague

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Blonde hair, toned body, clean shaved and about 5’6″ tall.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My boyfriend was at work so I was bored home alone one morning. My work friend started talking to me online, and we found out we were both horny. He invited me over as his boyfriend was also out and he was bored.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I knocked on the door and was invited in. In the hallway we immediately kissed and started groping each other. He led me to his bedroom where we stripped to our underwear. We lay on the bed kissing and touching in underwear until I worked down his body removing his underwear and taking cock in my mouth. Eventually we started to 69 and it was a great blowjob. We sucked until we had fed each other a load. We finished up and I got dresses and left, leaving him naked on his bed with a picture of him and his boyfriend on the bedside table. Next time we were at work we decided we would do it again, just waiting for our next time. Until then we work together each day and feel each other up when we can.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt guilty on our partners but it felt so good. I just cant wait to do it again. Wouldnt make a relationship of it but casual sex with him is so good.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Guilt on my partner

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The amazing kissing and blowjob

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The kissing my partner when he came home knowing what had been in my mouth

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Its fun

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Its fun and without it i dont know if i could stay with my current partner as sex isnt great.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great

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