by Mia Wetmore

Gender: Female
Age: 47
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Napa Valley, California
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Hospitality
Relationship status: Committed open relationship
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Heteroflexible
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 500ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Zero

Blue Moon

How long ago did this hookup happen? Year

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fwb first time

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was from my hometown. He was short but strong. We reconnected on FB so we talked for 3 months before meeting. We were laughing a lot and having great phone conversations and phone sex.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I drove 350 miles to him. My annual birthday trip only to be with him. I Instigated he paid.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Top of a beach condo with all glass.. Sliding doors open to waves and seals and salty air. It was a blue full moon.. The moonlight bouncing off the crashing waves fill the bedroom with a glowing bright light. We started with kissing and then I performed oral on him. Slipped my finger in his ass and knew this was what he wanted! Rolled him onto his belly and proceeded to rim and eat his ass then to penetrate it and then to fuck it! For over 2 hours.., the ocean, waves, moonlight and his ecstasy combined to make it memorable for sure!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms.. Testing prior and after .. Infertility for me…

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Like guy on phone wanted to see if we were gonna click in RL

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? 3 beers for him.. 1 patron xo for me.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Stayed 3 days that visit. 4 trips.
More this past year with the last one being 6 weeks in a faraway state! Drove 1500 miles with my mastiff.. He paid for it all. I love him and hope we get chances to see each other in future.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends think I am crazy! Alien.. Think the pegging and anal I am into is kinky.. He also crossdresses and I adore it!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, it brought me back to my kinky roots and gave me someone to share it with!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best was the pegging and anal play that is now back in my life. The worst is a “relationship” that neither expected.. Though having someone to love has been nice! I still think of myself as polyamorous but I have curbed it since he isn’t comfy with it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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