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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Singapore

Booty Call Experienced

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was an Indonesian girl I had matched with a few months before the hookup, when I was visiting Jakarta. I had met her in Jakarta for a lunch before my flight left. After that, we occasionally texted for a few more weeks until our conversations died down. On the day of the booty call, I hadn’t spoken to her in months

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was at home and planning to go to sleep early when I got a text message from her at around 10 pm. She said she was in Singapore until the next morning and wanted to hang out. I told her I didn’t have much time and had to work the next day, but maybe she could convince me to change my plans. She then sent me a naughty picture of her big, round boobs, which enticed me. I told her I could come over, but I would have to be home by 1 am, so it would be just sex. She agreed and I hopped in a cab.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I entered the hotel room around 11 pm. She was lying on the bed in lingerie. Next to the bed was a bottle of wine, from which she had already drunk a couple of glasses from. We chatted a little bit, but we both knew we were only there for sex and there wasn’t much time. She mentioned something about how stupid German guys are, so I assumed some German guy had stood her up, and hence, she decided to text me.

We started to kiss and I played with her pussy. I took off my clothes and put on a condom. We had sex for quite a long time in many positions. In between positions, she would give me a blowjob over the condom to keep me hard. I had jerked off at 8 pm that evening, so I wasn’t feeling extremely horny. But because of the blowjobs, I was able to stay hard for a long time. We tried missionary, doggy, and then her on top with her big boobs bouncing around my face. Eventually, we switched back to missionary. I could tell she was getting tired and she asked if we could come together. I complied and started to bang her harder and harder until we both came.

After that, we cuddled a bit. I could tell she was sad because of some other guy, but I didn’t want to go into details. Sometimes things are better left unknown. She started to fall asleep, so I decided to leave. I said bye and grabbed a taxi. I was home by 1 am.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I texted her afterward and asked that she should let me know if she made it to the airport in time the next morning. She forgot and responded only when she was already in Jakarta. We haven’t contacted each other since. I felt happy that I had tried a random booty call, but I didn’t think the sex was that great. She was clearly thinking about someone else, and I basically just used her as a meat puppet. Overall it was an interesting experience. Next time, however, I might just choose to sleep early.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told the other girl with whom I was casually sleeping with. She was happy for me and considered it a win-win for the girl and me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? New experience

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The sex was bad, and there was no emotional attachment whatsoever.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

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