by 16 stuck in a 40 year old body

Gender: Male
Age: 40
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Oklahoma City, OK
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Relationship status: Married
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Borrowing Porn Turned To More

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Experimenting
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Richard and Karri were a couple we found on Craigslist.  Andrea, my wife, and I were interested in doing a full swap.  We were 36 and Richard and Karri were 34 and 33.  Richard was 6-2 200lbs dark hair and Karri was 5-4, very curvy and probably a size 18 with C cup breasts and a plump tummy and rear, dark hair and green eyes.  Andrea my wife is 5-6 and a size 14/16 large C cup breasts, very thick and curvy through the mid section.

After email exchanges, we decided to meet for dinner one night.  At first sight I knew I wanted to see Richard with my wife.  I was trying to get Karri to talk to me, but she wasn’t very interested at all.  That frustrated me, but i was more into watching Richard talking to Andrea.  After the dinner, we parted ways and Karri texted Andrea and let her know that she was 3 months pregnant and to forgive her for her not interacting too much.  I didn’t mind being with a pregnant lady, it was kind of exciting to be honest.

I texted Richard and let him know I was interested in getting him and Andrea together, but the timing would be tricky as she was a school teacher.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The next week was full of texts and pictures.  Richard said he had some porn that I could borrow to help get me off.  He said I needed to come to his house to borrow it.  So I planned to go and get it.  I arrived at his house and he let me in.  He took me to his stash in the bedroom where some porn was playing on the TV.  He and I stood and watched a little. He handed me a few DVDs and I thanked him.

Nervously, I asked him how big his penis was.  He smiled and said BIG.  I responded with, since you are going to have sex with my wife, can I see it?  He agreed and unzipped his pants and dropped his boxers.  He was quite hairy, and I could tell he was uncircumcised and very thick.  He was not fully hard, but not limp by any means.

I got down on my knees and reached out and touched his penis. His skin was warm and soft.  I looked up and he closed his eyes.  I continued to rub his penis and balls, feeling his shaft swell.  It was considerably bigger than mine, especially on the girth.  I could not believe i was doing this, but it felt so good.  It took a couple of minutes, but I rubbed him until he was fully erect.

I told him to lay on the bed, and he removed all of his clothes and laid on his back.  I moved in close and continued to stroke him, i was so impressed with his size.  I closed my eyes and leaned in, bringing his swollen tip to my lips, where I kissed it.  I could not believe this mans penis was touching my lips.  I opened up and put his whole tip in my mouth. I had not idea how to suck a penis, so I remembered all I had seen in pornos.  I wanted to please Richard, and I could tell he was enjoying this.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The entire time, my penis was limp, as I was so focused on him and pleasing him.  My untrained lips and tongue were trying things.  Swirling actions, kissing his balls, pressing his whole shaft into my mouth and entering my throat, my tongue on the ridge of his tip, and licking from the bottom of his balls up to his tip were all things I tried.  I lost track of time and was in no rush.

After the porno ended on the TV, I looked up to him and requested that when he was about to cum, that he would put his hand on my shoulder and squeeze, so I wouldn’t get a blast of cum unexpectedly.  He smiled and agreed. I was so focused on doing what ever it took to make him cum, that I didn’t think about gagging or sore jaw.  I rotated between focusing on his tip to deep throating to sucking on his shaft.

Richard began to be vocal and I was hoping he was getting close to cumming not because I was tired, but because I wanted him to cum.  I wasn’t sure what to think about another mans cum being shot into my mouth.  Would I gag? Would I swallow it? Would I spit? would it run out of my mouth?

My action became more and more aggressive on his penis.  I was so intent on him cumming.  Again, I lost track of time, but after and extended time period (~20-25 minutes), he begged me to stop sucking.

As I slowed down and his penis came out of my mouth, I noticed it was quite limp.  I also noticed a white bubble coming out of his tip, I leaned down and licked up the bubble, which I quickly realized was cum.  I rolled it around in my mouth and then swallowed it.  He began to get dressed and I asked him if he came?

With a big smile he said yes, all in your mouth and throat.  I felt a little slutty and a little cheated.  I was stunned.  I had just sucked off a man and I swallowed it.  It was fun and a lot easier than what I thought.  So I took the DVDs and thanked him and left.

On the drive home, I realized I had a mans sperm in my stomach. wow.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Richard had an orgasm, but I did not, not yet, but did when I got home.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I just wanted to see his penis, I didn’t know it would turn into me sucking him off and swallowing his cum.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? none.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I will write more about what happened after the hook up.  I felt a little guilty, but was proud of myself.  I didn’t have any hopes at that moment, but over the years, I have craved his penis.  I guess this is how a woman feels after, I’d really do just about anything to please him…

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I eventually told Andrea, but I know Karri has no idea.  Andrea was confused and a little upset, but we worked though it over a couple of days and things are fine now.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes, for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? not really.  Richard has not wanted to repeat it as much as I have wanted to over the years..

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I know I am not gay, because I would rather be with a woman and I am not into touching or kissing or rimming, but in someways it makes me think I might be bisexual. or bicurious.  I love my wife and love sex, sex of all kinds, even enjoying her with Richard and other men.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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