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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Security
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Both Virgins

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last year

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was tall and ha a very nice body. We met online and spoke for a very long time. During this time we really got to know each other. My sister kept saying that she was in to me but I didn’t really believe it. It reality I kinda of saw the signs but just wanted to ignore them because she became a really close friend of mine. In no way was I romantically interested in her but ultimately I’m a guy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One night while we were talking on the phone I told her that I knew she liked me. To my surprise she confessed. Further on I would throw hits about fuck buddies and friends with benefits, then we started slowly sexting and kept talking about what we would do. She was a shy person but not when she was talking about sex. At some points she would be the one to bring it up. A couple months later I moved back to New Jersey where she lived and since we were still friends we wanted to see each other again. We planned a day to go out where she booked a hotel room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got to the hotel we just laid in the bed for about a half hour until we got comfortable but I realized she wasn’t doing anything so I decided to make the first move. I started touching her ass and teasing trying to ease her up because I could hear her heavy breathing. I knew she was a virgin so I wanted her to be comfortable with me. I then just went under the sheets and I saw she was wet. This definitely made feel like I was doing something right. I went down on her for a long time until we switched it out to her sucking me off. This part was the most I was looking forward to but wasn’t much enjoyable because I kept feeling too much teeth. While blowing me we did the 69 which was nice to experience. We then went into missionary, I started kissing her and sucking her tits and I could hear her heart beating really fast. I tried telling her to relax. Once I put my condom on I started entering her slowly. It wasn’t what I expected but it still felt nice. I lasted more than I thought I would but it was probably because she wouldn’t let me go fast. After we finished I showered and she drove me home. After that we talked but two months later I move to Florida and was busy and couldn’t talk to her as much. She would try to act like my girlfriend which I did not like, eventually she stopped to talking to me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After I felt pretty normal and I just kept replaying it in my head and jacking off. I was hoping to stay friends and hook up some other time but it did not happen. I didn’t have any romantic feelings for her but I did care about her. To this day I don’t feel anything about it I wish I could hook up again but that’s about it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told one of my brothers and he was pretty cool about it and he sheared some of his experiences.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to lose my virginity and it was with someone I trusted and felt comfortable. Virginity wasn’t something too important to me but I believe it should at least be with someone you feel comfortable with.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It wasn’t too enjoyable because she was virgin and she wouldn’t let me fuck her much.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

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