What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 9
Bowling for BJs
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2012 ish
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She looked a lot like Ellen Page. Kind of a tomboy-nerd type. She was very skinny and not very curvy, which was something she was self-conscious about. We went to high school together and she dated one of my friends back then. Fast forward to a few years later. I ran into her at a house party on break from college. Nothing happened, but we talked and she seemed friendlier than usual. She had slept with a lot of guys and was very open about it. I was thinking that she was interested in maybe being FWB. We started talking more online and hung-out occasionally. Eventually, we ended up bowling with a big group of friends. We were both drunk and she bet me that she was going to beat me at bowling. I said no way. We went back and forth betting, and she blurted out, “If you beat me, I’ll give you a blow job.” I laughed, wondering if she was serious because she was acting like it was a joke. I ended up winning (she’s a really bad bowler), but I didn’t bring the blowjob up after. Later on, she messaged me, asking to hang out and saying that she still owed me a blowjob, fair and square.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I invited her over when he parents weren’t home. I was still not 100% sure if she was joking or not. We ended up watching a movie on my bed, but 10 minutes in she looked at me and bit her lip. We started to make out for a bit. She took my shirt off and started kissing down my chest. ” I think I still owe you something from the other night.”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She pulled down my pants to my knees and started kissing my cock. At first she didn’t use her hands, just her mouth to suck and lick my cock. I knew she was experienced and it definitely showed. I was in heaven. I started moaning and rubbing her hair. She smiled and told me to keep talking. She managed to deep throat my entire dick. She would take the entire length of my cock a few times and then take her mouth off to catch her breath. She jerked my cock and massaged my balls. I kept my hands on her head, holding her hair back. She would let me push her head down with my hands, taking her hands off completely and letting me fuck her throat until she pulled out to catch her breath. When I told her I was about to cum she started jerking me as fast as she could, keeping the tip in her mouth. I ended up shooting a huge load into her mouth. She was not able to catch it all and dribbled some back over my stomach. She swallowed, said sorry, and licked up what she missed earlier. She collapsed back on the bed next to me. “There, now we’re even.”
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We ended up becoming fuck buddies.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A great bj.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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