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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 53
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Wife and Girlfriend
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met a Brazilian woman and her German friend at the Hard Rock Cafe in Munich. The night continued with drinking. I hadn’t actually slept in 36 hours since I can’t sleep on planes and had just flown in from Toronto. I got her number and ditched the friend I was with. Afterward, I called her up. We met up at McDonald’s and I got her to ditch her friend and we went back to Platzyl. She was a little older than me but attractive.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it?
We walked back to the hotel. There was no planning. We both understood that we were going back to fuck.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we arrived in the room we took a shower together and got into bed. She started to suck my cock and frankly I was shocked I got it up as I had been up for 36 hours. I put her on her back and went down on her and had 3 fingers in her and stroked her to an orgasm. At that point, I was so drunk and tired I told her I needed 10 minutes. Next thing I know I am looking at the ceiling in daylight wondering where the fuck I am. I get up to go for a pee and come back to bed. I didn’t remember a thing but she says she got on top and we fucked until she orgasmed. I didn’t remember a thing WTF. Then, I packed up my stuff from the hotel and we went to her place in Munich and fucked for 5 more days. Then I left. The first night was okay. But the next 5 days were awesome. Having lack of sleep was shit.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? I don’t know

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left the hotel and stayed at her place. I go back 4-5 times per year for business and to hook up for 4-5 days. It’s a crazy relationship. We met up in Brazill for a bit. You only live once.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Menopause

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, No sleep

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? She invited me back to her apartment for more and keeps inviting me back.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Still, keep hooking up and can’t resolve to commit.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Got to reaffirm I needed a pseudo relationship.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Realized my shitty life trap.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Got an exit plan out of Canada with a hot piece of ass waiting for me in Germany or Brazil.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Glad I got a couple days to do it again so I had some memory point.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Should have tried more when I was younger.

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