What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Break in Sex
How long ago did this hookup happen? About a year or so
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him at a dessert party and I wanted to know him. He stands tall and has a sweet smile plus he’s a brunette. I’ve always had a thing for brunettes. We ended up hooking up not long after we met. We found each other at another party and made out in my car. The party got busted, then we met up later that night and had sex for the first time. I wasn’t looking for a relationship and he wasn’t either so we grew cool with the idea of being fuck buddies.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was actually at my friend’s house when he texted me and wanted to meet up so I left probably around 1 in the morning and we met up at this huge house that was for sale. I guess we kind of broke into it. Just the backyard anyway..
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He was very sweet. He kisses me tenderly but he also knows how to treat me rough. He pinned me up against this waterfall ledge and he was so deep inside of me. I lost part of my nipple ring after that. I went down on him underwater after that, it wasn’t easy but it was so hot. It was freezing afterward so we rushed to the car. It ended up being a very fun and open sexual experience
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was satisfied! We still hook up occasionally once or twice a month, maybe more depending on what’s going on. Initially, I was like, “oh he’s cute I wanna date him.” But I realized that I still have a lot more to learn about myself and wasn’t ready for a relationship. I still have a good relationship with them now. We’ve gotten closer and we still fuck buddies.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It allowed me to explore my sexuality without enforcing any expectations of the other person.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I am an emotional person. There was a time when after we had sex I was confused and upset. I stayed away from him until I realized what I really wanted from the relationship.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It has definitely made me more comfortable in my own skin. I think that in a weird way, an open sexual relationship creates a deep bond because you can tell them things and dress however you please, not cleaning your room and they’re just seeing you for you. I’ve been more open to the monogamish spectrum in terms of relationships.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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