by High School Lover

Gender: M
Age: 40
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Canada
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Construction
Religious affiliation: Nil
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Breakup Booty

How long ago did this hookup happen? 22 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My first lover, my high school sweetheart. We had dated on and off for a year or so, and she had taken my virginity. We were friends in the times we were not lovers.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup was a few days after the last time we split up. We were still friendly, and I guess we still had the hots for each other, but just didn’t feel like a couple. I don’t remember who started things…

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was always a good and kind lover, as much as high school teenagers can be…! We ended up making out and some PIV [Penis in Vagina] sex ensued. She ended up giving me a hot blow job while on her back and I came in her mouth. Yes, she swallowed.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? She was on the pill.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Horny teenagers, with a history, alone…

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We are done, lost touch, but I still have a sweet memory of her. Would love to reconnect and screw around again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Oh yeah.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope, never.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was good, the person was special to me. The worst thing is that it was the last time we ever had sex.

I trace so many of my sexual desires back to those first experiences with this person, so it has had a huge effect, on my sexuality, IMO.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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