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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Griffith
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? admin
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Brother’s Friend Visit

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was my brothers friend (buddy) from the army. They were both on leave and came to stay for a few days. He was the coolest guy I ever saw- I was hot on him from seeing him in uniform when they arrived. I was the nerdy sort- still a virgin and hadn’t done much more than kiss yet. I thought about sex all the time and watched a lot of porn but no real experience.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I woke up for a pee at 2 AM. I saw a light on in the kitchen and went to investigate. He was there having as nack in his undies and tank top. I was in a long t-shirt. I took 2 beers out of the fridge and sat next to him on a stool and asked him to tell me about the army. after a minute or 2, his leg glanced mine — I didn’t react – then it touched for longer- I put some pressure back on his leg. I thought- this is it. I started getting wet and hot- I was sure that this was completely visible though of course, it wasn’t.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He then put a hand on my knee over my t-shirt. I put a hand on him and he must have thought I was going to stop it but instead I held his hand and lifted the t-shirt up so he was now touching my bare knee. Quickly the hand moved up my leg ad I could now see he had a boner. I said to him- my room- so we went there- the light stayed off but a lot of light comes in from outside. He said – 1 minute and went out- now I know he went for a condom. When he came back he lay next to me on my bed and we took it slowly. I was so hot and wet I literally pulled him on to me. I quickly felt a stab of pain but much less than I expected (my virginity). I let him do the work so we stayed in missionary until I felt I was in sort of spasms. We had to keep quiet- parents next door. He then pushed faster and faster- exciting but hurt a bit till he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was relieved to have lost virginity and with such a cool guy. He stayed 3 more days – we fucked every night. This happened again a year later but since lost touch

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Girl friends- enthusiastic.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That it happened

What was the WORST thing about this hookup?

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? yes- made me more open though still only had few flings

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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