What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 55+
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Alaska
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? tech
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Famished
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3

Buddy Shares His Wife

How long ago did this hookup happen? Started 13 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is Filipina and married to one of my friends. He and I were talking one night about how he wanted naked pictures of her, so I offered to take some for him. On the day of, she came home from work with a glass of wine, and dressed up in only a white shirt. She is very sexy, shapely and well built. I have always admired her. I couldn’t believe I was getting the chance to do photograph her. She didn’t take long to strip and pose for me, she did whatever I instructed. She even touched her pussy for me as I snapped away. I asked her to masturbate and she did. Meanwhile, her husband was moving around the room video taping the action. I was highly aroused because she was so sexy and my friend had mentioned that i may be able to touch her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He and I had discussed it as far as what he was hoping to get photographed (hard core, open pussy photos). He prepped her by telling her that she should allow me to touch her and she agreed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After the photo shoot, she danced naked for us. He was grabbing her so i followed suit, feeling her soft sexy skin as she writhed and wiggled inches from my face. I didn’t take long to feel her pussy and it was quite thrilling to think that I was touching the sexy wife of my friend while he was watching. I had a few beers but refrained from drinking too much because I knew I needed full command of my body if i was going to get lucky.
She drank more and more and was rubbing her pussy on my clothes as her husband watched. She seemed to be passing out and even though my friend told me that I could have sex with her, I wanted her to be fully conscious. I told him i would go home and work on the pictures and to let me know when they woke up in the morning so I could come back.
That night, I jacked off 2 times looking at the pictures I took. At 10 am, the phone rang, it was her asking if I wanted to come over for coffee. I said of course and drove straight over. When I arrived she greeted me at the door completely nude. She led me into the house and he was sitting at the kitchen table, smiling, and engaged in casual conversation as she stood between us, she served me coffee and rested her hand on my shoulder, it felt like I was dreaming. After a few minutes, he said that we could go ahead and do whatever we wanted. I smiled and she held my hand as we walked into their bedroom where we began kissing. She sat on the bed and I pushed her back so that I could lick her pussy. Soon, I stood up and she opened my pants and went straight for my cock. She pulled it out and began sucking right away. After a short time, I moved to feel her wet pussy wrapped around my cock we kissed.

After a second, I remembered that her husband had requested that we use a condom, so I got one and put it on after our short bareback frolic. After about 40 minutes, I saw him approach the bedroom door. He stood and watched us. I told him to tell her how he liked watching us and he did before reaching over to feel her breasts and clit. I never broke my stride, it was a rush knowing he was watching. He leaned in and asked her if she liked my cock and she replied that she did. Then, he stood up and left the room. I moved down and kissed her passionately. After some more time, I could see him peeking from the hall, but more discreetly, voyeur style, so I let the show go on. About an hour into this, he stepped into the room to watch and I came really hard into the condom.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He told me that he wanted to plan some special days where we all stay at their house in the afternoons instead of work. I told him that any time was fine with me. It started a few times a month at first. Most of the time we would watch a porno and then i would fondle and fuck her on the floor of the living room while he drank beer and watched us fuck. Those were the beginning days of our love affair that is 13 years deep now.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal, Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? only one friend

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finding a hot lover and soulmate who loves to fuck almost as much as me

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being her husband

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? i love casual sex and I did it a lot when I was younger. I feel love is impossible to contain and think people should be free to express it with each other.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I find there are many ladies I have met that make me gush. We connect, and I really believe it should be such that we could lay together and empower, and validate each other, and the connection we share and how we stir the universal orgasmic energy can form and bond the souls of two consenting adults.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? awesome

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