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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 55
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Bloomsburg
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Baker
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Bus Ride

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1975

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Good looking, tall athletic, well tanned.
Quite well, we were in the same grade but didn’t take the same class. Most of our conversations were at lunch or shared study halls. I’d say that we were more loose friends as we didn’t run the same social circles and both of us were in serious relationships, I was dating a guy 2 years older and he was dating a girl 2 years younger.
I liked talking with him, he was really intelligent but he never acted snobby, I thought that he was witty and I enjoyed his company.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened on our senior class trip. We sort of found ourselves together as many of our friends had paired off. We made out a couple of times, at first out of boredom and we had been drinking, but we both felt a spark and I will not lie but there was that thrill and excitement of doing something forbidden. It never got very far though as those occasions always seemed to be interrupted.
I think we both felt relief that we didn’t go further.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Our actual hookup took place on the ride home. We checked out of our hotel and put our luggage on the bus. We were all dressed up as the class was going to have one last meal together at a fancy restaurant before we departed. It was a nice affair but sort of left us all a little somber as the realization that our school days were almost over.
I got the very back seat of the bus, I had the remnants of a 6 pack and was going to drink it before we got home.
We had just started moving and he appeared by my seat and asked if the seat was taken and if I had another beer. He sat down, I gave him a beer and we drank in silence. I don’t know how or why but that it was mutual but after we finished the beer we started making out. He was an extremely good kisser and things got hot. He was playing with my boobs outside my blouse, he paused and began to unbutton it. I think he was waiting for me to say no, but my hormones were kicking in and I helped him. Luckily for us, I was wearing a front closure bra and I undid it to let the girls out. His response was immediate and he began kissing and sucking on my nipples which is a huge turn on for me. His hand rested on my thigh and started to slowly work its way up to my pussy. I opened my legs to give him better access, surprised how deft he moved my panties to the side and how expertly he fingered my pussy. It was all so erotic, I know I was grinding into him, every time I’d let out a moan he’d give me a deep tongue kiss. He paused, pulled my panties off and readjusted himself to give me oral, my god his tongue was magic and I came. He got up and we began deep kissing again. I am usually put off by kissing right after I been given oral but it just seemed so right. I was massaging his cock through his pant but then I became aggressive and undid his pants. He had a gorgeous cock, dark brown, thick and on the big side.
I kissed and licked his cock, he was oozing and it tasted wonderful. His balls felt lovely and while I am not a swallower, in the back of my mind I was wondering what to do when he came. Before I decided and with his cockhead in my mouth he came and not wanting to make a mess I choked it down more so because of the volume than the taste which I found pleasing. I thought would be it but he quickly pulled me up and kissing me, exploring my mouth with his tongue, almost like he was searching for any of his cum that might be lingering in my mouth.
That just drove me over the top, his cock was still erect, I mounted him and we pumped away. I have never ever had a partner that we hit the same rhythm so much so that it felt so natural. I have never wanted a man to cum inside me so badly, that just thinking about it made me orgasm, my squeezing on his cock and he came and the sensation of feeling his cock pulsing and the warmth of his seed, I came again, or more like one long wonderful, mind-numbing orgasm.
I sat there on him, we hugged and kissed until his erection receded. I didn’t want it to end but we got our clothes straighten up, drank the last beer and sat there in silence for the longest time. Finally, we talked about what had happened, both agreed that it was great but that was it and not to mention it.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My boyfriend picked me up when we arrived and damn if we didn’t have sex before he dropped me off at home. The episode was remarkable not so much for his performance as more than I’d just had sex with someone else earlier and that is what ran through my mind.
I said that we had agreed not to hook up again but we did a few more times. They became less and less exciting.
I will say that a few years ago we became friends on FB. We do get flirty now and again and some of our massages were naughty.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, I was feeling lonely, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told me life long BFF. She was very happy for me as she didn’t like my boyfriend and I think in the back of her mind it would cause us to break up. It didn’t, I married him and still am. I didn’t tell anyone else.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? besides the sex, I got the what if out of my system. I’d had two very bizarre sexual experiences previously to going steady with my boyfriend but they didn’t involve penetration, still, they made me curious as to what it would be like with someone who you cared about.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The rumors that floated around the school. Glad that my boyfriend was out of school at that time because he’d have heard them and he wasn’t equipped at that time mentally to handle it

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? That experience molded the way I have looked at sex for the rest of my life. Later in my life, I realized that I was in control of my body and I became much more confident and assertive.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It is one one of my fondest memories. I didn’t know it at the time but it helped me realize that sometimes there is just that spark of chemistry between 2 people that naturally gets explored

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Years after this happened my husband found out and confronted me about it, at first I denied that it happened. He told me that it hurt more than I was dishonest than that I’d had sex. then he even laughed as he said that night he picked me up was one of the most memorable times he had sex with me “if I only knew”
That when our relationship became totally honest and open.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy it. Quite frankly reading some of the details of the hookups are stimulating and turn me on. I also like it because it does not push that lifestyle. Hey if you are happy in a monogamous relationship that is great, but don’t throw stones at people that are content with something else. I guess that why they keep it under wraps

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