What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Bloom
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Clerk
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? at that time 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
How long ago did this hookup happen? 12 yeras ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a preppy jock. Taller than me, which was a turn on as I am 5’9″. Brown hair, well tanned. I had never had any classes with him but we had talked numerous times, so it wasn’t like he was a complete stranger. I had always thought he was the shy quiet type.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was our class trip. We were both in relationships, mine was an older guy and he was going with an underclassman, so it was funny that we kept getting stuck together. It just started out as innocent talking while our friends were otherwise occupied but evolved into kissing and really heavy petting. It almost turned into sex and I think that we both wanted it but something always blocked it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On the ride back home I got the backseat in the bus. I started to drink a beer and the next thing I know is that he is standing by me and asking if I had a beer that I could spare, and he sat down and we drank a beer. After we finished our beer, we talked a bit and we started kissing. He was a great kisser and it was making me very horny so when he started playing with my boobs I let him, even unbuttoned my blouse so he could get at them better.
I guess that was a sign he was looking for as he began to massage my boobs and suck on my nipples and then started rubbing my thigh, running his hand up my skirt until it was on my pussy. When I didn’t protest he put my panties to the side and began fingering my pussy, quite expertly, which surprised me.
Now I was really getting turned on and began to return his caress, and rubbed his cock through his pants.
I said that I was surprised at how expertly he fingered me as I began panting and pushing into him, and we shared a deep tongue kiss as I had an orgasm.
We had a little laugh afterwards as he said that his cock was bound up. I undid his button and belt and zipper it down to relieve him, and out popped this big, beautiful, thick, brown cock. I leaned down and started to kiss and suck it. He was oozing and tasted so good that I got into it. We only paused to adjust his pants and for me to kneel between his legs so I could play with his balls while I sucked and licked him. I must have done everything right because it wasn’t long before he came. It took me by surprise because I am not a sallower but it just felt so right and didn’t taste bad, also I didn’t want a mess so I choked I all down.
I was going to chug some beer, but he was so turned on by me swallowing that he gave me a deep passionate kiss.
I guess that if anyone would have saw us they would have had a laugh as he sat there with his pants down to his knees and my blouse unbuttoned with my boobs out. His dick was still hard and I thought what the fuck, I got to have him, so I took off my panties and mounted him. His cock slid in and I rode him while he alternatingly kissed and played with my boobs. It ended we both came together, well it was more like I came, then he came and feeling his warmth and cock pulsating inside me made me come again. It was heavenly.
I sat on him, we were kissing and exploring each others bodies, the sensation of feeling his erection slowly receding was so hot.
We got our clothes back on, drank another beer together and kissed all the way home. we did talk about how great the sex was and that we weren’t going to do this again and certainly not going to tell our partners.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? My boyfriend was waiting at the school to take me home. He stopped on th way home to have sex with me, I was a bit niave at this stage of my life and didn’t know how to refuse him so we had sex. I had an orgasm with him, not so much because he was a good lover as the thought of having sex with someone else before made me more aroused than I thought.
I had no expectations of having a relationship with him. I did have sex with him on several later occasions.
We went our seperate ways after graduation but a few years ago we became FB friends and kept in touch
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Thought it was an important experience to have, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My lifelong BFF. She was happy for me as she really didn’t like my BF and thought it would break us up. It didn’t, he never found out and I married him. Also she was in the same class as his GF and thouht she was a snobish bitch.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Other
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That I found out what sex with someone else was like. Besides my BF I had only had 2 botched sexual experiences and neither involved penertration.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? rumors at school. I think that while it was a rather public act, no one actually saw what we were doing and thank god he kept his mouth shut. I had a lot of snotty looks from the preppy bitches in my class. I think most of them were jealous.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I wish that I’d have experienced moire casual sex before I got married. I had a period in my life where I wasn’t happy with myself and used to have sexual fantasies and imagine all sorts of sex situations.
I am now comfortable in my skin.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? it was a wonderful period of my life where I felt free and with inhabitions. I keep it in the back of my mind, a fond warm memory.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? there is a place for it. I learned that I need to ask for what I wanted.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it.
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