by Sebastian

Gender: Male
Age: 21
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Oakland, CA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Food Service
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Gay/Lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 111+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling I guess?

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him at work while working at the register. Apparently he had been eyeing me for a bit. He was from Egypt. He was so handsome and had a huge beautiful smile. His skin was a rich brown and he had short coiffed black hair and lovely facial hair. We were talking and he reminded me how he had commented on my necklace the time before. I remembered and we kept chatting (I guess it wasn’t busy). He was so freakin’ handsome and quite the talker. Flattery can get you places with me. Plus I kinda liked the idea of meeting a guy at the register.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We decided that the next time I worked, that he would meet me at work after I was off. He wanted to take me on an actual date.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well after work he took me out to dinner, and then to another place for drinks. Throughout our date he was very sweet, but he said a lot of things that were slut shaming. He wasn’t looking to just hook up with me and didn’t want to have sex yet. I let him know that I was a slut and for some reason he didn’t seem to mind. Haha. Anyways, we were smoking in the park and eventually I ended up on my knees sucking his cock. It was so hot! So there we are in the park with his cock in my mouth and he says, “Don’t have sex with other people.” I was so stunned, that I just stopped and looked up at him mouth stuffed full. I took his cock out of my mouth and all I could manage to say was, “But I have friends.” I then put his cock back in my mouth and kept sucking. Eventually he took me into the bathroom and started fucking me, but then people came, so we moved by some trees and a fence where he bent me over and kept fuck me.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Nope…I didn’t. I don’t remember if he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? As both of us were volunteers at the same sexual health clinic (as it turned out), sexual health is a common topic of conversation and definitely was discussed during dinner. He used a condom while fucking me.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He was so hot! Really it is simple. He was so handsome.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes. A few drinks and weed.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well I went home that night after what had (to my surprise) turned into a seven hour first date. I, of course wanted to have sex with him, but would have been more than happy to not on the first date since he didn’t want to. I was a bit amused by that, but figured that he may say that to any guy he goes out with. But I could not get over him telling me not to have sex with other people while his cock was in my mouth. Hahaha. It’s just so, hahaha. It’s so funny, unbelievable. Really I guess I was flabbergasted. Hahaha. And I loved my response! Haha. I don’t know really what I felt about him, but he was so handsome, so if he wanted to, I would hookup again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told some of my coworkers and I told some friends. They laughed so hard! Haha. “Don’t have sex with other people.”…”But I have friends.” Hahahaha.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes it was consensual. Consent is sexy.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Haha. No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hookup was that I got to hookup with him. He was so handsome! Also sucking his cock and getting fucked by him in the park. I love outdoor sex and am a mild exhibitionist. The worst part (and funniest part) was him telling me not have sex with other people while I was sucking his cock in the park on our first date after him telling me that he wasn’t planning on having sex on our first date.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? We went on a second date and he spent the night. Of course we had sex. He also told me that he loved me. But I was happy being a slut and not tied down. And even if I was looking, being told that was too much for the first and second dates. I have seen him around since.

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