by Sofia

Gender: Female
Age: 33
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Single
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Cabaret Voltaire

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup? one-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? During a trip to Scotland, I was in a club, after going on a pub crawl. It was a really cool club and I was really enjoying the music and myself, but I felt it could get even better. I looked around and there were some pretty guys and I picked one of them. He was a bit taller than me, dark hair and dark eyes.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I made the move. I started staring at him and then finally went and started talking to him. At first I just wanted to kiss him so I just said something like: Are you Scottish? (I was in Scotland) – He said yes –  I’ve never kissed a Scottish guy before, do you want to be the first?
We kissed and there was some heat going on. He asked me if I wanted to go somewhere else and I said yes. We hopped on a cab and went to his place.
We got there and went to his room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We sat talking on the bed and he suggested to put a dvd on. He put Bourne Identity because I love that movie. We laid on the bed to watch the movie and after a little while we started kissing.
We took our clothes off and the action begun. He caressed my vagina, I gave him a hand job. He tried to penetrate me, but I was a virgin (I didn’t tell him that) and I was bit dry down there. He was gentle and didn’t insist for too long. He then moved on to licking my vagina, which was really nice. He also put a finger in my vagina and didn’t stop until he made me cum. It was so delicious. I can’t remember if I gave him a blowjob… We then laid there and slept for a bit before I had to leave.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I did, but he didn’t.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I did check and he was wearing a condom while trying to penetrate me.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was the perfect situation for meaningless sex, as I was leaving town the next morning.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I’d had 4 or 5 pints of beer…I’m not sure about him, I think he was drinking too.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt awesome. It was really good for me. I had no expectations, I almost didn’t remember his name.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’m not sure I told anyone about this.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I’m pretty sure we both wanted it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was it went very smoothly. There were no buts.
The worst is that it was quite quick…

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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