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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was transiting through Kuala Lumpur and stayed in a nice hotel near the airport. I was tired after 2 weeks of intense business meetings.
I was married and faithful up to that point, but being married young, I was wondering what I missed out being with other women. I decided to try a call girl, which was reasonable prices there. I also felt protected by the hotel’s environment, with very strict security; you needed a key to get in the elevator and there was a reception on each floor.
I called the agency and asked for a girl that spoke some English.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Reception called me saying I have a visitor. I told them I was expecting someone and they should send her up.
There was a knock on the door and I opened it. Hotel security actually accompanied her to my room, which came as a surprise to me. They asked if I knew her and I said yes. Not sure if I was very convincing.
She was young (later I found out she was 24), cute and dressed in a very short shorts and a blouse. She did not look like a hooker but did not fit the hotel either.
She comes in. Makes a short call to confirm she is ok.
I was very nervous, so we chit chatted for a few minutes. I asked her if she wanted to give me a massage. She started doing it, and it actually felt good, after the last few days of stress. We also started making out. She smelled good and was a good kisser.
She told me I should take a shower (I appreciated her hygiene concerns). I suggested we take the shower together. We do, and play with each other in the shower, but no sex there (it was a little cramped in the shower). We dried off and moved to the bedroom, each of us covered by a towel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I take her in my arms and make out some more. I remove her towel and she removes mine, so we now make out naked. She had a beautiful, toned body. She was pleasantly surprised that I was shaved.
We move to the bed and she starts giving me a blowjob. I enjoy the feeling, but especially the view, of a young woman sucking me. My wife doesn’t do that.
She gets me very excited and I want to fuck her. I tell her that and she smiles. Since I am on my back she tries to ride me, but she is very tight and I am more than average.
I suggest I warm her up and start licking her, then fingering her. She enjoys it and gets wet.
We start in missionary position and then switch in a few others. At one point she comes and needs a break, so she takes the condom off and starts sucking on me.
After a while I am really turned and ask her where does she want me to finish. She tells me it’s my choice and I say I want to come inside her. There is nothing like a feeling of cumming inside a beautiful woman.
I put on a new condom, put her on her back and start again this time harder. I like to watch a woman’s face when I have sex with her, and she seems to like it. She becomes more vocal as I become more aggressive. I come in her and we are both exhausted and sweaty. We lay there cuddling for a while.
She gets a phone call. The hour is up. I have no idea it was so long. She takes my condom off (nobody did that for me before, it’s usually my job) and makes a joke that I filled it up. It’s normal after 2 weeks of abstinence.
She takes another shower to clean off and asks me if I will be around. Unfortunately I have to leave the next morning.
She’s heading to the door, but remember’s she did not get her money. It was prepared, and I think this should have happened at the start, but we were “distracted”. I sure was.
She smiles awkwardly. I give her the envelope and we hug and make out more before she leaves.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I know I should have felt guilty, since I am married, but didn’t. I felt good, happy I got laid, but nothing else.
I felt a bit sorry for her, that she has to do this. She seemed like a nice girl. She was a student and had a boyfriend, and was doing this part-time. It could have been only a story, but it seemed legit.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, I was feeling lonely, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Because I was married I shouldn’t have done it. But I don’t believe in sexual monogamy and wanted to try being with someone else.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Uninhibited sex, being with a younger woman, getting a blowjob.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Cheating on my wife.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sex can be separate of feelings and relationships.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish people would be more open about casual sex. Society enforces these norms that don’t work for everyone. If people were having more casual sex, the world would be a happier place.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a great concept, to collect input and experiences from people.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!