What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago, IL
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? pizza delivery
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 16
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

He Came in 3 Seconds

How long ago did this hookup happen? six days

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him four years ago when I was a freshman in high school, but he unexpectedly moved away and we didn’t keep in touch. We reconnected recently when he came up in my suggestion friends on Instagram. I followed him and we started talking. A few days later, we met up in person. He’s a very attractive person, but honestly a loser — not in college, total pothead.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started in his car when I kissed him while we were smoking pot. We both discussed being attracted to each other, but he was too nervous to make the first move. We later ended up back in his bedroom.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were snuggling on his bed and then we started kissing. I got on top of him and started grinding my hips into him. It was pretty damn hot honestly. He was super into it. I took his dick out of his pants and honestly it was the biggest dick I have ever seen — and I have seen a lot of dicks. I started sucking on it and then I told him I wanted to fuck him and he took my pants off, got on top of me, and fucked me for all of three seconds before he came. Then he fingered me and I faked an orgasm because I got bored.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We snuggled in his bed. It was nice. I left shortly after, and we made plans to see each other the next week. But then he decided I was too clingy (despite barely texting him) and said he didn’t want to see me. Honestly, I’m really glad. Because he was bad news for me and I deserve better

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friends about his giant penis. They were impressed

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? He wasn’t good enough for me. He used me for sex

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? giant penis

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? only lasted three seconds

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. No more casual sex for me.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

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