What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
Came on His Foot..
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Very fit guy, beautiful with long blonde hair worn in a man bun, I meet him at uni before summer on tinder, we talked for a long time and snapchatted we had tried to arrange a meet but were free a different times. We both left for summer and didn’t speak since, until one night a couple of months ago I was out clubbing at uni and I bumped into him in the club. We gave each other a hug and said hello he gave me a kiss on the cheek.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was walking into one room of the club as he was walking out so it was just a hello goodbye moment. I didn’t think much of it other than he was hot. I was dancing with my friends when suddenly out the corner of my eye I could see him back in the room watching me nice, I completely ignored him and acted like I couldn’t see him. We both went about our nights. Towards the end of the night he messaged me saying he was walking back to his hotel did I want to come with him. At first I said no I was due to start my period so didn’t want any accidents and I was still enjoying me night. We said we’d arrange something else another day. When I got home later in the night I was pretty drunk and sent him a message saying how hot he looked, he replied with why didn’t you come back, I explained and he said just come please.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived at his hotel, he was in his room waiting for me. I walked to his room, the door was open I went in and saw him lying on the bed in just his boxers, I took my coat and shoes off and slid into bed next to him. We made a bit of small talk before I said my hands needed warming up from being out in the cold, I started rubbing his cock over his boxers and playing with his balls feeling him start to harden. I took his boxers off and traced my tongue over the tip of his cock, he moaned slightly that’s when I started licking up and down his shaft before forcing his cock fully into my mouth whilst massaging his balls. I was really starting to go to town when I felt his leg moving upwards, so I stopped and asked if he was alright, he said yes carry on, so I continued. As I did his leg started moving up again and that’s when I felt it.. he was rubbing my clit with his big toe, not something I’ve hard done before but it felt good so I went with it. Everytime I suck harder/ faster he would rub faster, we both really starting to moan and get into it. Then he pushed my head down hinting he wanted his balls sucked so I lowered myself and sucked on his balls, after a while he started pushing my head down lower towards his arse, I asked if his arse being licked was what he wanted and he said if I want. I like to please and could tell he wanted it so I started by licking each of his cheeks slowly by the opening, I could see he was wanting it more so I let him have it, I quickly brushed my tongue over his arsehole he moaned quick and then sighed, so I began sticking my tongue in more and really licking it. After a while I moved back up to his cock but this time my bum was facing towards his face, he started by fingering my arsehole which felt good, then he started fingering my pussy which felt even better, I’m really tight and he picked up on this and said he really wanted to try fucking me. We tried cowgirl first but his cock was quite big it was difficult to get in, so we changed with him on top putting my legs on his shoulders as he really went to town, it hurt at first but after a while I was really getting into it, we were both moaning again but then he pulled out and said sorry it’s starting to hurt, I said sorry and how could I make it up to him, he asked me to suck his dick again so I did, this is when I felt his leg moving up again, I knew what was coming so carried on, he started really going at it rubbing my clit with his foot, I started going faster as he did, then I couldn’t help but moan as he started going even faster before I knew it I was cumming on his foot! He must have liked it because he blew his massive load in my mouth. We both smiled at each other I laid next to him, he said I could stay but I thought it was best I went so we chatted for a bit then I left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Didn’t hear from him other than a snapchat here or there. He was a nice guy and I’d got there again, just really wanted to kiss him but was clear it was just physical for him which I get.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Didn’t want to disappoint my partner
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? One of my fuck buddies, they thought it was a bit gross he fingered me with his foot but funny that I came on it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Had fun, gave my first rim job, opened me up a bit, and taught me my clit is very sensitive
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t kiss him
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s fun, as long as everyone is on the same page and no-one is getting hurt it’s harmless and a good experience to have
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. Nice to hear other stories and see what other people get up to!
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