What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Extremely promiscuous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60 plus
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? Six months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was on a sales trip and had dropped into a small village pub for a drink. She was laughing and as a guy next to me at the bar with his girlfriend who was quite attractive and had a naughty look. We got chatting casually and the guy started steering the conversation to sex, asking me if I had a regular fuck.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Then he told me that he loved taking pictures of his girlfriend with a “freshly fucked look” but had never had a picture of them in action. She was laughing and asked me if I would come with them and take the pics. I was very willing and we went out, got in the guy’s car and he drove a short way to a track into the woods. We got out and he gave me his camera and I took a few pics as he stripped the girl. She obviously wanted to show off and knelt and took him in her mouth and I got some close ups of this and then he put her on her back and penetrated her. I took pics from all angles and got him to change positions so I could get some clear pics of him in her which also showed her face. Eventually, he started pumping her hard and she got quite noisy until he came in her.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When he pulled out I was horny and had a hard-on and the girl said: “look at poor Callum, he’s all excited.” She asked her boyfriend if he would mind if she let me fuck her and he said to go ahead. She knelt and I got behind her and entered her. She was very wet and open. The boyfriend started taking pictures and I took it slowly so he could get them. After a while, he stopped and I started shafting her hard. She as squealing again and soon afterward I came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt very good about it. I like women who are not hypocritical about their sexual needs and I would have very much liked to have met them again. I went back to the pub a few times on trips afterwards but they were never there. I’d love to meet them again for a serious threesome as I think the girl was very, very sexy and I liked the guy.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told a few friends and one girl who is very promiscuous and likes dirty stories.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I enjoyed photographing the couple and I was very excited by the girl’s sheer eagerness to be had in front of her boyfriend immediately after he had her
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Haven’t any negative memories.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Guys if you ever read this I’d like to meet you two again,
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think the world would be a happier place if people could have casual sex with anyone who attracted them without any jealousy. I also think its time the world stopped calling promiscuous girls sluts and started thinking of them as Total Women who revel in their ability to give and receive pleasure
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it will help a lot of people get rid of hang ups.
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