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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Indianapolis
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Welder
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 17
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Few years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S was a white 5”2 college lady who had an ass that was small and firm. She had short hair that could barely put in a ponytail. We started talking on app called Whisper. I comment on a post she made saying men ain’t shit. Then for day just messaging each other on app. Then exchange number and FaceTime.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day I was at my grandmother house helping with some yard work. And all family came over. So me S was FaceTiming and she was laying down at her friend house where she was house sitting for. I was like, “I see your cleavage, put them up.” She said it’s just titties and took them out. She ask what I was doing that night, I said nothing because I had work in the morning. So she came over to my grandma’s house around 9pm. We sat on the couch til I need to go to gas station for drinks for work. She wanted to take me so we got in her car. And went to the park. Sat and start talking. She ask to see my dick and asked, “What would you do if I wanted you.” I told her I would fuck her good. I showed her my dick, she was very happy saying, “I never had one that big.”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After I had my dick out , she start stroking it while I started playing with her pussy. I tried to taste her juice but she was not going so we went back to my grandma’ driveway, still stroking me. S was driving still stroking me, I said, “forget it, let’s fuck.” So she pulled her seat back and I got on top because she was already wet. Just being on top, she was screaming very loud kinda made me think she was faking it… In 30 mins, I came on her lips. She was mad I didn’t cum in her. And she was like, “You definitely know what you are doing.” She never had a guy fuck her that way. I waited for few minutes, then bent her over started fucking doggy. But this time, I was slapping her on ass calling her a whore. She loved it and called me the n word. That made me cum harder.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hook up, I definitely wasn’t going to home because I was living with girlfriend at the time, so I slept at my grandma’s and went to work. A few weeks later I hit her up when my girl went out with a friend. She came over to my apartment and we had sex in the living room on the couch. She was talking even dirtier. Then we hooked up on more time months after second time, then my girlfriend found out. And I found out that they go to school together and S was telling a lot people about my d game. She still posts on Whisper looking for me, but I move to another state.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My ex girlfriend when she found out and my best friend

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Because it was end of great relationship I had with my ex

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I finally put it in girl butt

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not having condoms when I nutted in her last three times

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I do it because I’m single and not looking for relationship

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!