What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? couple years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was perfect height for me, maybe 5’6″ woth long brown hair and highlights. The first thing I noticed was her ass in tight dark jeans- I found out later she was big into fitness. Her breasts were small to medium and she was pretty in the face. I didn’t know her at all but I saw her in the crowd at a concert my band was playing, so I started talking to her. I thought she was very nice and tons of fun.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We chatted at the show and she said she was down to hang out and party a little later on. I got her number and texted her to come to our hotel around midnight. We hadn’t hinted at hooking up, and I knew we probably wouldn’t that night because she struck me as a pretty good girl, and I did not want to pressure her.
She got there and I met her downstairs in the parking lot, we chatted for a minute and I suggested we go to the trailer. I guess I wanted to skip the party and just be alone with this cool girl. I could tell she was a little weirded out when I showed her the trailer (which had a room to chill) I think she said half jokingly that she had pepper spray. Anyway, the trailer was freezing so she suggested we go to her car and talk. There was a knowing moment when we both naturally headed for the back seat and we laughed a little. Once inside it didn’t take long for some sexy talk and we started making out passionately.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It happened so unexpectedly us kissing in the back of her car, once we started it was like we were both begging each other for it. Her breath tasted so good (weird but awesome) and her tongue was strong and sensual. I felt under her shirt her smooth skin and near perfect physique and squeezed her boobs while rolling my tongue in her open mouth. She started to moan and half stood up so I could take her jeans off. I pulled them down to discover a sexy black thong strung over the most perfect ass I have ever seen (so much for the good girl thing).
I kissed her cheeks and licked playfully. She sat down and started undoing my pants. Pretty soon she was on my dick. Her tongue wrapped around my head in circles. She was aggressive and smooth bobbing up and down. I reached and felt her sexy ass and found my way down to her pussy. I played around a little bit but couldn’t get a great angle on her. The blowjob was so phenomenal and I felt myself starting to go. I told her to stop but she wouldn’t listen. I came super hard right into her throat. I don’t think I’ve ever come so hard.
The next few minutes are blurry but I remember her saying she should probably go soon. I would have still loved to lick her all over her legs ass and pussy, but she stood up and pulled her jeans up just below where her ass started, almost teasing me. I remember an ache of dissappointment from both of us that we we’rent going to keep going… maybe it was me, maybe her but we ended it with a little talking and flirting and I tongue-kissed her goodbye promising to hit her up next time I was in town.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We texted here and there in the weeks and months ensuing. We would send eachother teasing pictures and text dirty things. What struck me about this girl was how cool we clicked afterword- neither of us were ever needy- just turned on by eachother and totally cool with not texting all the time, but here and there. It made me actually want her even more.
I saw a while later that she has a steady boyfriend now and we haven’t spoken in a long time. I wish her the best- and tip my hat to the lucky guy who got her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontenaity and mutual attraction
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it had to end ;-(
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It’s given me hope in good, innocent and purely passionate sexual encounters
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Lots of casual sex for me has ended up in some degree of emotional turmoil. In fact, casual sex has even forced me into a relationship which I was mentally unprepared for. Society as a general observation craves attention. This encounter was a genuine spontaneous and intimate experience with a perfect stranger, and I feel so lucky to have experienced it.
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