What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Construction
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 200
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a very cute and sexy Australian girl who was visiting Brazil for Carnaval. She was only 21. We met on the street, I introduced myself and we got some juice and started hanging out. She was adventurous and fun, very beautiful with a great body, small tits, big ass that was rock hard. She has a coy sense of humor and seemed somewhat devious.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were obviously both tourists being the only two white people in the street when we met. I had decided to stop masturbating and leave my hotel room, which was the right decision. We had romance but ended up drinking with her friends all night. We hung out another night and ended up back at my hotel where I gave her a massage. I was much older than she was and she felt nervous. I was precumming thru my pants after the massage lol. After that it was late and she wanted to go home for the night so I walked her home. We didn’t see each other for several days after that and Im sure she was wondering why. I decided to buy her a gift which was a black miniature top hat and a black pair of gloves. I invited her the next day to go to the music with me and that I had gotten her a gift.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We hung out all day and the attraction between us was definitely there but downplayed. I was quite fond of her and she knew this. We had a very romantic evening in Brazil with people in costumes and her wearing her sexy hat and gloves. We had drinks and watched the people and the beautiful scenery on a lovely warm evening. We got to talking about sex and how I meet people off of craigslist to hookup. I showed her a picture of my dick that I send out when asked to. She was turned on by it????
I asked if she wanted to go to one of those hourly rate hotels, which are quite fancy there and she silently nodded yes. On our quest to find a hotel we soon discovered that none had any vacancies. I was quite excited to have sex and so was she I believe. There was a family who let me stay in their home for free during Carnaval. The daughter was out and the mom was asleep. I had been sleeping in the bed of the daughter. We snuck into the house together, it was 4 in the morning. We were very quiet. We lay down and when she felt comfortable I asked if I could eat her pussy, she said yes. I slowly pulled up her short black skirt and pulled her panties off. Her pussy smelled amazing and delicious. We had been walking all day in the heat and she had peed several times so her pussy tasted like young salty vagina which was absolutely delicious. I ate her out for a while, until I was satisfied, she didn’t cum but said that I deserved a harem of beautiful women, lol. After that we had intense, quiet missionary sexy. We were both very very sweaty and sliding around on each other. It was amazing. I came silently and intensely. After that we fell asleep and woke up at 6 am and snuck out of the house. It was an experience that made my entire trip to Brazil.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We hooked up again another day and she gave me the flu, but let me cum inside her. I was very ill for quite a while. We ended meeting up on another island and going on several dates which I enjoyed immensely.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to some friends about it and they thought it was cool, failed to see how fun it was for me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The romance, the chase, the sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I got a little attached to her and acted foolishly at one point, more clingy than the situation called for.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I would love to live my life traveling around and meeting beautiful young women and having flings with them.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I should have been more adventerous in bed with her and less emotionally attached.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is great.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love reading peoples stories and sharing my own. Its a space for those who want to share.
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