What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales agent
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? It started four months ago and we still see each other about once a week.
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s 6’4”, handsome, and has a sexy smile. It was the first time we met but we had been talking for about two months on tinder. We met at a bar close to both of us. We only live about 10 minutes away from each other. Before the hookup, I thought he was a cool guy. We talked pretty much every day and always had something interesting to talk about.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were having a blast singing, dancing, and enjoying our drinks. We were very engaged in conversation and making plans for a second date when he kissed me at the bar. We made out pretty much the entire night after that. We had previously talked about hooking up all the time but since it was our first time meeting we weren’t sure if it’d be awkward or weird. Both of us knew from the start that neither of us wanted a serious relationship.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as I parked my car at his place I unzipped his pants and pulled his huge cock out. I started sucking his dick and made it super sloppy and wet per his request. After only a few seconds of being down there he asked me to stop so he didn’t cum before getting to fuck me. We made our way into his place and he gave me the most amazing oral sex I’d received in a very long time. As soon as I orgasmed he turned me over and started fucking me nice and hard from behind. We fucked on his couch, in the kitchen, on his balcony, and finally made our way into his bed. The sex lasted about 5 hours. It was the first time I’d ever been with someone who came more than twice in one night. I was very impressed and knew right away I’d absolutely be going back for more.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? When we were both extremely tired we cuddled and fell asleep. He held me the entire night which I wasn’t expecting but it was a nice surprise. The next morning he made breakfast, we talked about our favorite parts of the night, fucked again after finishing our food before I finally went home. I knew I wanted to see him again and he made it clear that he did too. I genuinely like seeing him. He’s very nice and we are extremely comfortable with each other and have reached the point where we share our craziest fantasies with each other no matter how taboo. He knows exactly how to turn me on and has an amazing dick. Things are great and I truly hope we don’t have to change anything anytime soon.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. She hasn’t met him because I’d rather not ruin a good thing. I feel like once we start meeting each other’s friends/family things will change and get too serious. My best friend loves what I’ve told her about him so far though, he’s very thoughtful and kind.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Meeting someone who shares similar interests and is just as horny as I am. Every time we see each other, we fuck for hours. We both decided to stop sleeping with other people unless we’re inviting someone to join us for a threesome to lower the risk of STD’s.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It’s still going strong and I hope it continues.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex can be great as long as you and your partner are both looking for the same thing. I’d love it if people stopped saying women catch feelings and ruin everything. In my opinion, everyone deserves to had fun and if you’re lucky enough to have your fun with someone you trust and not risk getting STD’s then go for it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s interesting reading other people’s stories.
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