Current location: Michigan
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Recently single
Religious affiliation: Somewhat religious
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? More than 30.
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Casual Oral Thing.
How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago.
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends-with-benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Angela was three years older than me, black, tall, sometimes wore her hair in a bun, other times wore a really sexy and really desperate wig. She was Nigerian by ancestry. She’d been born in England. She was studying childhood education and social services, I think?? She was also writing a novel. She was only a junior because she’d taken a couple years off after high school for some family issue. When I first met her, at a friend’s party, I was trying to abstain from hooking up–it was kind of difficult for me then, still is–and I didn’t find her all that attractive. But she really wanted me, obviously, so I decided to make a move.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began when, after we’d gone out on one actual date, we were texting about when we should meet up again. I told her I was free that night and she could come over. But it was cold out and supposed to snow and she didn’t want to take the bus (she lived in an apartment fyi) so she said I could come to her place. So I, not giving a fuck about cold weather, took the bus over to her place. We got inside, talked a little bit and began making out on her couch. She asked me if I had protection. I lied and said I did. We moved in to her room.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First I ate her pussy. Went down on her. Performed cunnilingus. However you want to call it. This was partly for me to think strategically about to proceed with my yup-got-a-condom story. Should I instead persuade her to let me raw dog her? I’m good at persuading girls. I have a persuasive personality, so I was confident I could do this. But as I ate her out I gradually got in to the act. And so did she. She was at first just moaning, panting, sort of putting on a performance. I was caressing her neck and cheek with one hand. I put my fingers on her lips and she began sucking on them. She sucked on my fingers for a long time and then folded her thighs around my head. While still sucking my fingers. It was really hot but I couldn’t hear anything, basically couldn’t breathe. But since she was obviously getting there I buried my face deeper in her clit and breathed in her juices for little bit. Then she released her legs and I heard her moaning again, this time more high-pitched. I did this trick I’d devised with other girls where I moved my body up and clutched her legs with my elbows and fingered the lower part of her vagina while I tongue blasted the upper part. I’ve never met a girl who didn’t go wild for this. It was easy with Angela because her vagina was so expansive. But still, she might have preferred the position we were in before. She touched my hair and sort of pushed my head down a little and did the thigh thing again. Which was fine by me except for the strangulation aspect. Her feet bounced off my back.
Anyway, I’ve described eating her out enough. When it felt like she was wet enough that she couldn’t have not cum at least once, I pulled away. I told her I was going to find a condom. She had been wearing her white t-shirt this entire time and I was hoping she would take it off, but she didn’t. I pretended to look for a condom, told her I must have forgotten it and told her we should just do it raw and I would pull out. She was hesitant but I talked to her some more about how good it would feel for both of us. She looked at me and said okay, but I better pull out. So we fucked and she shut her eyes and kept her head cocked to the side on the pillow and we were both at least as in to it as we were during oral. Me, more so. She sometimes said fuck (the only time she ever swore) and oh god (she was catholic so yeah, she would). I felt myself start to cum and it was mad good so I almost forgot about pulling out. I did just in time and blew my load on her tits and her face. She made this sound that went from being a moan to a sound of what the fuck? It was kind of funny.
I finished and went to her bathroom and cleaned up and brought some paper towels back for her. She was mad about my pullout game. She said I didn’t have to do it like that. I told her sorry, but how else am I gonna do it. She wiped herself off and was silent for a little bit and then told me I should leave. So I got dressed and left. The bus had stopped running so I had to walk all the way back to the dorm in subzero temps and almost got mugged.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Oh yeah. I’m not sure if she did during intercourse but definitely while I was going down on her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None. You can tell, I think. I mean you can tell if the girl should be asked about that stuff. Angela was fine. That said, fuck yes I have too much unprotected sex. But I get tested regularly and nothing came up.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to get pussy. It had been a few weeks. Simple as that.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None. Angela didn’t really drink.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We didn’t talk for about a week but then I saw her on campus and made it up to her. We started hooking up again in short time. I started wearing a condom. It just isn’t as good with a rubber. During the time we were still hooking up, I started hitting on this girl who I worked with in the kitchen and simultaneously started seeing her. I didn’t tell either of them about each other. Sometimes I would hang out with Angela, fuck her, go to the other girl’s dorm, fuck her. Needless to say my dick got to feel pretty sore some nights!
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I might have mentioned it to a couple of my buds. I don’t talk about my girls too often. I also recently mentioned it to a psychiatrist I’m required to see for…a bunch of reasons. But I didn’t go in to as much detail lol.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yup on both.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. I did regret my pullout method. It’s just gross to do it that way unless the girl wants it.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Feeling her wet pussy in my mouth while she licked my fingers. The worst was her getting pissed at me. Here’s the thing; it’s a year later, and I just broke things off with this girl who I saw for a while and felt a little more serious about because I cheated on her. Multiple times. Once with an escort. So I’m the first to acknowledge that yeah, I’m like a borderline fucking sex addict. Addictive behaviors run in my family. But at the same time I love it and don’t want to stop just hooking up.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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