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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 68
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Isle of Wight, UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very much a bottom/sub, men only
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was black and quite large. We met on Grindr. I was staying at an airport hotel and wanted to suck some nice cock.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I texted him my room number and he responded asking if I would suck his cock. I said yes, and he came to the room. There was no foreplay and little talk. We both knew what we wanted and went for it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got right down and started sucking. He got hard almost immediately and we had a great time. I loved sucking this anonymous guy and he was enjoying himself as well. We tried different positions – me kneeling him standing, me face up on bed, him facefucking me, me sitting against the wall while he thrust down my throat, finally him lying on his back on the edge of the bed while I knelt between his legs and wallowed his load.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He got dressed and left. A true “zipless” encounter – exactly what we both wanted. I hope he visits again this morning!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To cheer myself up, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/highual

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Haven’t spoken to anybody yet, but will if it comes up in conversation.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Both of us wanted a quick NSA hookup and that’s exactly what happened.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No negatives. Will get checked for STI when I get home.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, I often do this sort of thing

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was delighted to get hooked up so quickly and easily after a week of no sex.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoy casual sex. I spent many years (43) in 2 heterosexual marriages but also indulged in casual sex (increasingly man/man sex). I am now single and 100% gay. Casual sex is fun for all and I’ve made lots of friends through meeting for sex initially.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good to (a) investigate and (b) spread the word

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!