What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Adelaide
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Lawyer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Casual Tent Sex
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Rob was the brother of my friend David. I had known both of them for several years, but was never involved with either of them. Dave was going out with my friend Michelle. Rob is a pretty fit guy and quite cute, but during most of the time I knew him I was going out with someone else.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Dave and Michelle invited me to go bush-walking with them and Rob was going to come along. We were going to spend a night in tents. After a day walking in the bush, carrying packs, we came to the camping area and set up the tents and then started to cook dinner. A bottle of red wine came out and we all had a glass with dinner.
After dinner Dave and Michelle headed off to their tent. I was a little awkward to be sharing with Rob, but we went off to the tent. At the time I was actually involved with another guy, so I was being faithful.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were just talking for a while. Then I had an urge to pee, so I went outside. I went by a tree. Anyway, while I was doing it I accidentally pissed on my undies, so I took them off. When I came back inside I still had my shirt on but no undies. There was nothing I could do because I didn’t want to put the wet undies on and all my clothes were inside the tent. Anyway, I went in there with a naked bottom half.
This set Rob going, because straight away he was trying to come on to me. He was trying to kiss me, but I pushed him away because I was trying to be faithful.
Anyway, he was a good guy, and with wine in me I started to get turned on. So I said, ok this can happen, but you have to understand this is a one-off thing because I am in a relationship. He had no trouble agreeing to that.
So we started getting it on. He was kissing me, and feeling my tits. I reached into his sleeping bag and gave his cock a nice tug. We were deep tongue kissing and I was rubbing his cock.
He reached into my bag and gave me a little feel, and then he said, “I really want to fuck you.” I said no, I am in a relationship. But I said, “If you like I will suck your dick.” He readily agreed again, so I zipped the bag down, kept on massaging, but added my mouth in.
Anyway, he must have been really in the moment, because i only went down on him 3-4 times and he says, “Oh jeez i’m gonna cum.” I thought, well why stop now so three more thrusts and his cum hit the back of my throat.
He was moaning pretty loudly at this point, and I know that Dave and Michelle heard us because M. brought it up in the morning, asking “What was going on in your tent?”
I was pretty wet myself at this point, but at least I stayed true to my boyfriend…well maybe not.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had to walk back to the cars. Later that night, Rob said he wanted to go out with me again. But I said no so it never happened again…except maybe one time!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? We reached an agreement – I would give him something nice but there would be no future relationship
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Michelle and my next boyfriend. My new boyfriend found it very horny and wanted me to tell him all about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting kissed and being able to give him some nice sex and big blowout
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I was a bit remorseful the next day. I felt bad for cheating on my BF, but he turned out to be a commitment phobia type anyway.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? This is only one of a few experiences. It was kind of fun, and I wouldn’t mind being able to do this more.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Pretty cool
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