by Rachelle

Gender: Female
Age: 19
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Causally Losing My Virginity

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends with benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was the son of an old family friend. I had a very small crush on him. He is very tall and powerfully built.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My family was visiting his for the day, and we got bored and retreated to his room. He had stolen some whiskey from his father, and we took turns drinking it until we were both fairly inebriated. Because we were so drunk, it was hard to tell who initiated sex.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out heavily and lost our clothes in the process. He obviously was not a virgin, and being two years older than me, he was far more experienced than I. He had me blow him so he could get it up, and then he fucked me very forcefully, not considering that I was a virgin. I still enjoyed it. He kept going until he came into me.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did have an orgasm, as well as my partner.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t use protection. He didn’t like the feel of condoms and I didn’t know better.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were very bored and very drunk.


What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, we kept having sex at school and at home. I felt dangerous and sexy for doing it with him, especially since he was older. We stopped hooking up when I discovered that I was pregnant. He never claimed responsibility as the father, and ignored me. I carried the baby and gave her up for adoption.


Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It wasn’t consensual because the booze impaired our judgement, but it was fun.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret having sex with him, because I brought my beautiful daughter into the world and gave a couple a child.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive


All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

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