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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 57
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Antonio
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Medical Doctor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30 plus
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Catfished for Gay Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I responded to a Craigslist casual sex of a man and a woman looking for a man. The woman in the ad was beautiful in her late 40s. We left CL email and started kicking. There were multiple pictures of her and “him” and “she” set up the meeting. She wanted her husband to come over and she would come in a few minutes later. She wanted to catch him sucking my cock.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He showed up at my door around 10 am and she was still texting me while he was talking to me. She said to get started and so we went into the bedroom and he started sucking my cock. He was really into my cock and then he wanted me to fuck him in the ass so I did that as well. I wasn’t really super turned on – I never came – but I never lost my erection either. After fucking him for 10 minutes or so, he came. The “wife” never showed up and at the end, he admitted the ruse. I felt completely stupid.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He sucked my cock. I wouldn’t let him kiss me and then I fucked his ass doggy style and then later, I laid on my back and he rode me cowboy style. He came that way.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t appreciate being duped. He asked to meet again but I blocked him after that. I am not against bisexual relations with a man, but I didn’t want to continue with someone deceptive.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Too embarrassed I was fooled.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? Didn’t like getting duped. I am okay to fuck another man again. I have no interest in sucking cock or being fucked, but if they want me to fuck them, I kinda liked it. So I would do it again under more honest circumstances.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I did like it when I made him cum.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being duped.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It makes me want to be more careful.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

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