What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Chance encounter on new year’s eve
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He had medium length brown wavy hair and a mustache that I thought was a little silly. He has beautiful warm brown eyes which is what I first noticed about him. He was thin and slightly taller than me, probably 5’10”.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was travelling alone in North Carolina and missed a connecting bus. I was bummed at the prospect of spending New Year’s alone in an unfamiliar city. After connecting with some friends of friends of friends I had a place to crash for the night and some kind, if slightly irritating girls to party with.
We went to a bar where their friend was playing music with a band and after being repeatedly lost in the shuffle (they were pretty drunk and not really making it a priority to make sure I was with them) I locked eyes with a sweet looking guy from across the dance floor. We started talking and dancing and kissing at midnight. After the new year started I called my “friends” to see where they were and it turned out they had left me alone at the bar.
We ended up going to the after party with the band and I crashed with him on his friend’s couch that night with him promising to bring me to get my stuff in the morning and bring me to the bus stop.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? That night we mostly just made out and cuddled on the couch, neither of us was very drunk, we had smoked some weed and were both tired. We woke up pretty early the next morning and kissed and started touching each other. He started fingering me and after a night of build up I came really quickly. It had been a few months since I had had sex and I was feeling really horny, so he went and got a condom. I came really quickly and he seemed satisfied with that.
We spent the morning together getting breakfast and he let me use his computer to buy a bus ticket. The only bus leaving Ashville that day had already departed, so he offered to bring me with him on his 6 hour ride back to nashville and drop me at a bus station somewhere along the way. We had been talking about ourselves for a while now and while I can’t say I had any reason to trust him, I was starting to get the sense that he was a really nice guy, so I thought, why not?
On the ride we drove through the Smokey Mountains at sunset and held hands and listened to music. We smoked some pot on the ride and I ended up giving him a blow job on the highway which was exhilarating. He also fingered me a little bit while he was driving.
I ended up spending that night and the next day with him at his house. We took a shower together as soon as we got back (not something I typically enjoy, but it was sensual and welcome after a lot of traveling) and he ate me out a little in the shower.
I was really turned on at this point and we had sex in his bed. His penis was really lovely with a slight upward curve to it that hit me in some really good places. I came a lot, and fast. I apologized because I usually have more stamina when it comes to sex. He seemed pretty pleased with himself and we kept going and he came as well.
The next day we spent smoking pot, listening to him and his roommates playing music, cooking food, and sightseeing in Nashville, as well as going for a brief hike. We had sex once more before falling asleep, waking up with only a bit of time before my bus left. I gave him one last blow job and he dropped me off at the bus station. We kissed and parted ways, he gave me his number and said to let him know when I got home safe.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I spent the next few days on buses back to my home state with a lot of time on my hands. I thought about him a lot and we sent some sweet text messages back and forth. I spent the next few months occasionally thinking about him and often when he’d cross my mind, he’d text me a few minutes later. I felt a weird cosmic connection to him and count it as one of the best sexual experiences I’ve had.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, attraction to partner(s), thought it was an important experience to have.
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, marijuana, hashish.
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, marijuana, hashish.
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent.
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My sister and a few friends (with varying amounts of detail) they were all shocked and supportive. “You do you girl.”
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity of it, the fact that I ended up really enjoying the time that we spent together.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? His dogs watched us having sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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