by Eddie30

Gender: M
Age: 30
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Paris
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Designer
Relationship status: In a LTR
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Gay
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Thousands
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Chasing Bears in a German Winter

How long ago did this hookup happen? January/14

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Was on Grindr just searching for a last quickie before coming back from holidays in Berlin. M was online, had the body type and features I like (masculine / bear / bearded) and had a very kind smile. He invited me to his hotel room and I was in his bed within minutes. He looked kind and delicious at the same time. We had agreed in not using condoms.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? See above.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? M was bottom only. He was really hot and skilled. I came 3 times and he, 2 times. First was very quick, I penetrated him from behind, he on all fours. I screamed so much I probably woke up other guests. It was part of the desired game that I had to ejaculate inside of him, and so I did. He made me stay and we talked a lot about plenty of subjects (former sexual experiences, family, our jobs…). After some talking, he proceeded on giving me a wet and warm blow job, which was wonderful. I came in his mouth and he swallowed it all. Then I masturbated him until orgasm. Then, I had a shower planning to leave, but the sight of his hairy ass made me hard again. My penis was sore, but I was so horny I just had to fucked him once again. This time tho I wanted to look at his face, so we managed to fit in a way he was laying on his side and I was able to look at him while penetration. I ejaculate inside of him once again, and he also came, touching himself while I was thrusting inside.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? It’s all implicit when you search for a condomless sex that either you are HIV positive or not caring about becoming.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Holiday fun

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Lots of poppers. Nothing else.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He gave me his business card and we exchanged a few emails. I’m sure we could meet again when and if I go back to Berlin. There was really some human connection.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. This is the first time I disclose.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Everyone was OK with it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Obviously not.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? He made me feel great and powerful. Prior to him, I had never came 3 times in a single evening with the same person.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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