The Casual Sex Project Logoby Mike

Gender: Male
Age: 37
Race/ethnicity: White
Location: Georgia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Office work
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Very
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago or so

How would you best classify this hookup: One-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a very attractive brunette. Great curves. We met on AOL, back when their chat rooms were popular. I used to visit them quite often. We talked for hours online and she invited me over to hang out. It was probably around midnight, and during the week. I had met people from online before, but not late at night at their place.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I drove over and she lived in a townhouse with a roommate. The roommate was home but downstairs with her boyfriend. She answered the door and introduced me. We then went upstairs. She had a TV on in her bedroom. We just started talking, she was nervous and so was I. But once we started kissing it seemed better. She was wearing sleeping pants and a tank top. Clearly no bra.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out for a good while and I slid my hands all over. Eventually I was fingering her and brought her to orgasm. She rubbed me but did not go down on me. I was very hard and began taking my clothes off. She was a bit shy, but took her top off quickly. We kept making out and talking. She was not sure about having sex but was not unwilling either.
She let me slide her pants off and finger her more. She then laid back and let me slide on top. I entered her easily as she was wet and we fucked for a bit. She didn’t want me to cum inside her, but after awhile we couldn’t stop. I came inside her.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was semi planned, I mean who invites someone over late if not to hook up, but still it was a surprise how it happened. The sex was good.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None for me, not sure if she was drinking before or not

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled a bit, I think she was a bit miffed about me not pulling out, which I understood. After awhile I put my clothes on and she walked me out. Her roommate and boyfriend were still downstairs. I didn’t say goodbye to them.
We never talked again, honestly this was my only one night stand in my life.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual for sure.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, although I do wish I had pulled out. Maybe I would have seen her again if I did.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Very good sex and no strings or expectations.

No real downside other than pregnancy risk. Which thankfully never happened.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? As I said this was my only time having a one no night stand. Any other lovers were more than once or actual relationships. I don’t regret it though.

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