What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Computer Education
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? A bit wild
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 38
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Cheated At A Party

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were both a little younger than me, early thrities, single and very handsome and sexy. I’ll call them Jim and Jeff. They are both gym rats. Jeff is a personal trainer and Jim is in real estate. They were longtime friends and roommates at the time. We were at a party with my husband, all of his friends and the host’s friends and neighbors. These two were neighbors of my husband’s friends and I didn’t know them at all.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had got wind from a friend that they had some coke and was hoping I could get a line. I hadn’t done that in years but was a bit drunk and in the mood. I eventually introduced myself and flirted a little while my husband was outside and worked up the courage to ask. They were happy to oblige and the three of us slipped upstairs to the bathroom where we all did a couple of lines. I was flirting a little but had no intentions of cheating. Although I have had a lot of partners when I was younger, I had never cheated on my husband. When we were done Jim smiled and said, “I have something else for you.” Then pulled down his shorts and pulled out his very large dick. I was a little shocked but before I could say anything he pushed me down to my knees, grabbed my hair and guided his dick towards my mouth. I may have mumbled,
I can’t, I am married”, but I was buzzed and immediately began to give him head.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I couldn’t believe I was doing it with my husband downstairs and another guy in the room. These same thoughts turned me on. Jim quickly began to moan and had a hold of my hair roughly thrusting with his hips and soon pulled his dick out of my mouth and came all over my face. I was shocked that he was so rough and that he created a mess. They were both laughing. While I was cleaning up I realized that Jeff had filmed it with his camera phone. I was so angry and tried to leave but Jeff now had his dick out and was waiting for his turn. They also began called me a slut, telling me that I loved it, etc. Honestly, I was angry but I was also so turned on. It was so risky and reckless. I submitted to Jeff and gave him head too. Soon they had me down on all fours and I gave Jeff head while Jim lifted my skirt and pulled my underwear off. I was so turned on that Jim easily slipped his dick into my pussy and began fucking me. The sex with both was rough but I was in such lust by then, I actually had two orgasms. Jeff was pushing down my head and gagging me and I could feel Jim’s size and he spanked me hard. They were both calling me their little slut the entire time. We must have had sex for another 8-10 minutes until they both came. Jeff came first and I swallowed and finally, Jim came inside me. Afterward, I cleaned up and they were much nicer telling me how sexy I was. We all did another line and slipped back downstairs with no one the wiser. Though I did completely forget my panties upstairs.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was mortified but so horny. I wanted to grab my husband and go home and fuck him but he wanted to hang out and drink with his friends. The next morning after I was showered, I jumped him in bed and we had sex. The entire time I was thinking about the previous night and I came three times. As far as Jim and Jeff go, I have actually continued to see them. I see them at least once a week and often more and have become their little slut. They live five minutes away and I don’t work so it’s easy. It has progressed to the point that I have had group sex with them and 4 of their friends on multiple occasions. Two of which are friends of my husband. I also feel like a sex addict and also experience a lot of shame. I love my husband and would be a mess if he found out. I am certain he would leave. The sex however is very satisfying and exciting, almost intoxicating. We also continue to push boundaries by having sex when we are at the same parties as my husband. He and I are always together but I find a way to sneak off. His two friends that are now a part of this, will often run interference for one another so I can “disappear” for a few minutes. I have also allowed them to video a lot of this. I wish I could include my husband in the fun. He and I still have a great sex life but I often am thinking of the guys when we have sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power, Peer pressure, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Cocaine

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. They eventually told my husband’s friend who is their neighbor.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I cheated on my husband and its led to multiple repeated occurrences with a group of men who know my husband. Its also changed what I like with sex and I get more satisfaction from pleasuring multiple guyst than I do making love with my husband.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I have multiple orgasms when I do this.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The guilt and shame.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I like being used and I like being submissive to their desires.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I do hope that I will outgrow this and have the strength to put it in the past.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!