Current location: London UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Business Consultant
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Cheated In Paris
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was at his early 30s. Tall at aroudn 6’1” with an athletic body. He had medium length golden brown hair and blue eyes. I met him in a house party in Paris. I never saw him before that evening. I was in Paris for work and went to this house party with a few colleagues. One of them knew the host.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were introduced to each other by the host of the party and started a friendly conversation about general stuff like arts, work, paris, london, etc. I told him that I was married and in Paris for work for only a few days. He was wearing a dark shirt and jeans. He was cute in a sexy way. We were also drinking in a social way but I was already a bit tipsy as I can’t really tolerate drinking much. After a while my colleagues left but he asked me to stay for a bit longer and told me that he can give me a lift to my hotel as it is already on his way home. We continued to chat, still in a friendly way and continued to drink. At some point someone took out some joint and people started to smoke. He also lit one and we smoked in turns which made me even more tipsy. Slightly after midnight we left the house and jumped in a cab. When we arrived to my hotel he offered to go to the bar for one final drink for the night. I kind of knew that it was better to say no but somehow I said yes and we went to the hotel bar together. My hotel was one of the best hotels in Paris and had a very nice bar which was still crowded with people. We had our drinks at the bar and when we left the bar we walked towards the lifts together towards my room without even discussing it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First time we started the hookup was when he kissed me in the lift one the way up to my room. Then he held my hand and we walked to the room. By the time we closed the door he was already kissing my lips and his hands were wandering around my body. He first fondled my tits and then moved down and squeezed my ass and then he pinned me to the wall kissed all over my lips, ears and neck while he was lifting my light summer dress and caressing my legs. Then we started to walk towards the bed. I told him to check the minibar to see whether or not there are any condoms. I was on the pill but still wanted to find a condom as I didn’t know him. But we couldn’t find one. I was too tipsy and carried away with what was happening and I guess he just didn’t care. He laid on the bed on his back and opened his legs slightly. So I kneeled down in front of him and started to rub his cock. It was already very hard and about to rip off his skinny jeans. I undid his buttons and took it off and removed his pants as well. At the same time he got rid of his shirt. He was similar size as my husband. Around 7 inches but he had more girth and he was shaven. I gave him a BJ for a few minutes. Then he made me stand up and helped me remove my dress. I was wearing a black lacy g-string and matching bra and it didn’t take him much time to lose them as well. It was his turn to return the favour now. I lied down next to him and he started to lick my pussy. I was already wet anyway but he continued like that for about 10 mins or so. When we decided it’s time I climbed up on him and guided his cock in and sat down on it. Very slowly at first but then as I relaxed I was riding him hard and already orgasmed a few times. After a while he turned me over and spreaded my legs and fucked me in missionary. I curled up my legs and wrapped them around his back. His strokes got harder and when he realised that he was about to cum he squeezed himself to hold it but couldn’t and came inside me. We lied down next to each other and smoked a cigarette. It took him about 15-20 mins to got hard again and he put me in doggy position and entered from behind. This time it took him much longer and when he realised that he couldn’t cum he gave up and just lied down on his back. His cock was still very hard and I started to give him a BJ until he came in my mouth. I continued to suck him until he got dry. We washed up and smoked few more cigarettes. Then he put on his clothes. We said our goodbyes and kissed for a few minutes at the door and he left.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I had several orgasms and he came twice.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We didn’t use any condoms as we couldn’t find one in our room but didn’t mind in the heat of the moment.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? It was a spur of the moment thing. The thrill of being away from home, attention of a handsome stranger, a bit of drinking and smoking all added up.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We drank a few glasses but my threshold is pretty low. I was definitely more than tipsy but not drunk. We shared a joint and smoked it in turns.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt guilty about it as I thought that I betrayed to my marriage and my husband but also felt quite satisfied about the sex itself and the thrill of having a one night stand.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I confessed it to my husband after some time.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Yes and no. Yes because I felt guilty about it. No because it was just casual sex and didn’t mean much and it was good sex as well !
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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