What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Gastonia
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
Cheated on My Boyfriend with His Cousin’s Husband
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Oral
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve known my boyfriend’s cousin longer than I’ve known my boyfriend. And she’s been married for 5 years.
I never had feelings for her husband.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I spent the night at her house while my boyfriend stayed at home.
We had a little wine and she talked me into sucking his dick.
It was more like a dare.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well seeing it was only a blowjob, I didn’t do much talking. But my boyfriend (her cousin) did call my phone. So I stopped what I was doing to answer and she snatched my phone. She answered and motioned for me to keep going. My jaw dropped. She told him I was asleep and continued to talk to him for about 10 to 15 minutes while I was going down on her husband. She told me later that night that I need to have a 3some with 2 guys. My bf would never do that, so she told me it could be her husband and his best friend.
So that’s happening soon as long as she can talk to my bf again if he calls.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t feel too bad because I actually kinda liked the situation.
Fun on the side
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened, I swallowed for the first time.
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, Peer pressure, Boredom, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, What he doesn’t know won’t hurt.
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only people that know is my boyfriend’s cousin and her husband.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The kinkiness
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, I need more fun
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m kind of excited about The next time. It’ll be 2 guys instead of one.
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