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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? prefer not say
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? un employed
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? just dick
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Cheated on My Boyfriend

How long ago did this hookup happen? a week

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner was a hot guy at my school. He was in my history design class and I knew him for a week.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were studying at his house and it got hot so we took off our shirts, we got naked after we kissed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Quickly he almost ordered me to get on my back he quickly put his penis in my vagina. His dick was kind of tiny a lot smaller then my boyfriend, I felt very bored it was boring missionary sex and it only lasted 2 minutes. He behaved politely to me but I can’t tell him he was bad, he was an awful lover he had no experience and his small dick did nothing for me, we talked about how he could have made it better, it ended when he pulled out and came on my tummy.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Not at all

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup, he bragged a lot about fucking me which led to my bf finding out. I hated him for that and his sex sucked, I wanted no future.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My bf and my friend’s bf was devastated.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Very much

Why do you regret this hookup? Sex sucked, hurt bf

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to touch his abs

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Everything else

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nah.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It sucked

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nah.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? fun

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