What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Persian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Toronto
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? I think 1

Cheating with a Couple

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were a couple: Mira, a hippyish Indian yoga instructor, and John, her hippy white boyfriend. I met them at the yoga studio I frequented, where Mira taught, and John played some managerial role. I had become friends with them over a year or so of going to the studio but never hooked up with either of them, although I enjoyed observing Mira’s body and sensuality during her classes. They both had amazing bodies, as you would expect!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My current boyfriend and I had agreed to go on a yoga retreat at a sort of luxury campground that was being hosted by Mira/John’s studio, but he backed out at the last second, which left me pretty unhappy. It was one of a number of things that marked the end, and I made a decision to be flirty with all the sexy people I was spending the weekend with. I hitched a ride with Mira and John, and during the three-hour trip we all shared a lot, and one of them let it slip that their “third” for the weekend had ditched. (You can see where this is going!) I told them anyone would be crazy to ditch the two of them, and so, of course, they asked me to join them that night, which I did.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? That night at midnight I snuck over to their room, and John opened in his underwear, and Mira was lying naked on their bed, obviously excited to show off her fantastic body. John started kissing and undressing me while Mira watched, and all my clothes were off, and I was rubbing his cock and kissing him, standing in the middle of their room, a couple of minutes after showing up. John asked me if I wanted to lie down with Mira and I did, I basically fell on the bed because I was trembling so much from excitement and being nervous at cheating for the first time. I quickly forgot about that though as Mira held me to her and I was kissing her and enjoying that body I had been lusting after for so long. Mira started fingering me, and I was already so close to coming. John walked over and put his cock in my face, and I sucked it while Mira sucked my tits as she fingered me. She started going down on me, and I asked if I could sit on her, which is my favorite position when someone is eating me out, and I knew I was going to come soon. She said of course, and I straddled her face while John got on the bed and started fucking her. I was now facing the wall while John fucked Mira behind me, and I looked down into Mira’s eyes while she ate my pussy, and we held eye contact as I came on her, which was the sexiest part for me. After I came I lied down next to them while John fucked Mira until she came, and then Mira and I took turns blowing John until he came in my mouth. His semen tasted good, and Mira made out with me until we had both swallowed it.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I showered in their room and took off back to mine. I felt guilty about cheating as I went to sleep, but the sex felt so right it didn’t bother me that much, and I knew I would be hooking up with them again. We didn’t have sex again that weekend – too much yoga! – But I’ve joined them a few times since then and hooked up with Mira one-on-one a few times. It’s really fun fucking them.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told my boyfriend but it’s a story I like telling people I’m hooking up with because it turns them on. That’s why I’m telling it here.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting intimate with Mira and shaking up my love life.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The guilt.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love it. At this point in my life, I’d be happy to hook up with anyone I lust after.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it. I read it when I’m horny.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!