by Nick

Gender: Male
Age: 51
Race/ethnicity: white/british
Current location: UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: student
Relationship status: single
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Childminding Lead To First Time

How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 years

How would you best classify this hookup? very short fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was looking after a friends child over summer hols while I was a student and she was doing work experience. We went to the park often and I got chatting to one of the mums there with her kids. We got to kissing and such in the park until we went on a date one evening

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went on date, got chatting and went back to my place, we both kind of planned it

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had straight sex, she was surprised after when I said she was my first, did it again then she left. She insisted on being on top

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? we both came both times

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I checked she was on the pill (but only after the first sex) didn’t think of STI at the time

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? we were both lonely and horny (her husband worked away for weeks at a time)

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? a couple of drinks, dutch courage

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? there was a repeat a few days later but that was it. We both knew there was no future to it

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? my housemates tried to come into my room, thinking the date had gone badly, they only stopped when she giggled from under the covers

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual for both of us

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no regret

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? the best was SEX, hooray
the worst was no more sex 

I prefer sex with emotional connection

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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