by aline

Gender: female
Age: 24
Race/ethnicity: white
Location: London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: art historian
Relationship status: in a relationship
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Christmas’ Eve

How long ago did this hookup happen? last year

How would you best classify this hookup? booty call

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Russian, tall guy, blonde hair, blue eyes, well-built, very attractive

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? it was in a train station late in the evening. he asked me something and i responded. we started to chat and decided to get off the train and go for a drink together. one thing led to another and i invited him over to my place and we had sex.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? 69 and vaginal. it all started very smooth and it seemed natural. he was very playful and caring. he made me want to see him again which happened from time to time. he got back with his ex and i went back to mine.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? no, unfortunately I wasn’t very careful the first time. I was tipsy and way too horny to care after using condoms. next time we used condoms.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? i was feeling sad after i went to see my bf in that night, in the Christmas eve. i went to see him and give him a present. He was playing on his video game, refused to go out with me to have dinner so I left home crying. on my way home i met my hookup…

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? we had a couples of shots and cocktails together before we had sex.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? the sex was amazing so i felt like seeing him again and we’ve text each other for a little while. we were always having sex after a night out…it was more like a booty call…never thought of it as a possible relationship or so

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? told a couple of my friends. they said it was a bit crazy to do that but they trusted me completely. we even had a good laugh after this episode

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes, totally

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? he was a great guy and we shared an amazing experience. it was the first time i did that and it kind of opened my mind in a way…i was always shy around guys although i am considered to be a very beautiful girl. it helped my self esteem and flirting  techniques quite a lot

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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