by Cranberry

Gender: Male
Age: 42
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: IT Consultant
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: none
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Good
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Christmas Fun

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2003

How would you best classify this hookup? one week-stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? really good fun.  She was Hungarian with really short hair.  The first time I’d been involved with a woman with a man’s haircut.  Summer 2003… We kissed a lot on the train and she flew home to Budapest.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? girl I’d met in 2003 in the summer in Trafalgar square dipping her feet in the fountain.  Really sexy Hungarian, we met for a first date in November 2003, in the World’s End in Camden.  She didn’t feel comfortable having sex that night although we both felt very horny.  The second date involved us both waking up around 3am the next morning and I ripped her underwear off and we had really good sex on and off for the next week whilst she did a course in the UK.  No emotional attachments and great physical fun.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? we had straight sex and during the next 4 nights it continued.  On the last night we had anal sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? none

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? she was beautiful.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? some but it wasn’t the precursor

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? we talked and stayed in touch but just lost touch

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? some friends, they were happy

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? definitely consensual.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no, not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? the sex was great

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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