What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Virginia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 23
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? December 2013
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A fit 6’2″ tall Mexican guy, brown hair, brown eyes. I met him 2 months before this hook up at an au pair meeting and we had kissed before. We felt really attracted to each other even though I had a boyfriend at that time.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was the night of the 25th of December and another au pair friend, he, and I were going to be alone for Christmas so we decided to hang out together. We went to our friend’s house and started playing drinking games with shots. There was not really a plan involved but we all had an idea of what was going to happen later that night so my friend left us alone.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing on the couch and taking off our clothes when he went down on me. He licked my pussy so good that I had an orgasm, and I decided to return the favor so I sucked his huge dick. Then we lay down on the couch with him on top of me, I’m a 5″ tall girl so I’m very small compare to him. When he put his dick inside of me it hurt but after a while it felt so good, it’s the biggest dick I’ve ever had inside of me. After a while he turned me around and started fucking me doggy style, being that my favorite position it turned me on even more. While fucking me from behind he spanked me and said my ass is perfect and that he liked me being so tight.
He was kind and there was a lot of kissing. We fucked for a good amount of time maybe an hour, in different positions. When he was ready to finish he let me know and we went back to doggy style and he finished inside of me. My legs felt so weak after all that.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fell asleep together on the couch and I drop him off at his house the next day. We both knew that nothing else were going to happen because he was going back to Mexico in a couple of weeks.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel more desirable, I was feeling lonely
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked with a few friends about it and they said they knew that was going to happen sooner or later
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His huge dick.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It was on a couch in the living room, it would have been better if it was on a bed.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We talked every once in a while.
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