Sex educator Kenneth Play has published a series of tutorials on his PornHub channel. Here at the Casual Sex Project, we believe in talking about sexuality in an open and direct way, and Kenneth’s teaching follows that same philosophy. Check out what he has to say about clitoral play:
We live in a world fixated on penetrative sex as the end-all-be-all of sexuality. However, when it comes to female pleasure, getting external clitoral stimulation is actually a more important, effective, and dependable path to orgasm than is penis-in-vagina thrusting. (Especially if you’re one of those people who’ve been taught by porn that jackhammering at 100 thrusts per minute is the pinnacle of sexual performance. It’s NOT!) More often than not, the fingers are mightier than the sword, and there is so much the fingers (and hands) can do without ever even putting them in.
As a sex hacker, I love to figure out the most effective and efficient ways to accomplish our sexual goals. In this short video, I share some of my favorite finger play techniques for external clitoral stimulation that I have carefully collected from renowned sex educators, porn stars, sex workers, play party enthusiasts, kinksters, and tantra masters.
If you’re interested in learning more from Kenneth, he’s running a live stream tomorrow about sex advice for couples in long-term relationships! Learn more here.